How Soon After Passing Can a Loved One Communicate?

19006270When our physical body expires on earth, our spirits, also referred to as our souls, continue to exist, as does the bond that connects us with one another. As a professional spirit medium, I experience firsthand knowledge from loved ones in spirit every day. The transfer of information is much more complicated than a fireside chat. It is a form of communication that utilizes all of my senses to share information between dimensions. It requires great attentiveness and energy to be open and receptive to the content sent through images, sounds, feelings, tastes, and smells. Moreover, the symbols our guys and gals in heaven use to convey their messages needs to be pieced together for the recipient in order to form a coherent message.

When Can Divine Communication Take Place?

Many people ask me how soon a loved one in spirit can communicate once they have crossed over. The answer is right away. I have experienced immediate communications from both animals and people. I would like to note that while communication is possible, not every being in spirit is skilled at communicating as soon as they cross over. Some are better at it than others. This is because they are older souls that have this knowledge stored within the memory banks of their spirit. I would also like to add that it is important to give your deceased loved ones time to adjust to their new reality. It is equally important to allow yourself time to grieve and adjust to the changes in your life caused by the loss of a loved one. People who are in the depths of strong grief need time to heal, and when they reach out to a spirit medium too soon, they may not be open and receptive to what their loved ones in spirit want to share. Grief and deep sadness have a tendency to block spiritual communications because a person’s main focus is on painful emotions and situations. Often, they only want to hear what they want to hear. Think of it this way: when you experience sharp physical pain, it tends to take over your mind and temporarily halt all other thoughts. In fact, all you can think about is how to rid yourself of the physical pain. It is similar with emotional pain that accompanies strong grief in which the hurt of loss blocks out all other thoughts other than how to relieve the heartache.

Healing and the Grief Process

The time it takes for each person to process grief and work through the healing process is unique to each individual. There are many factors that contribute to the effects of grief including, but not limited to, the way someone passed, the depth of the relationship shared, and personal beliefs about what happens to us when we pass. While it is healthy to mourn the passing of a loved one, it is not emotionally healthy to dwell in grief for extended periods of time. Choosing to remain in a state of perpetual sadness not only blocks you from living the life you are meant to live, but also prevents you from recognizing the signs and messages that loved ones may be sending from the Other Side. In addition, it does not change the fact that a loved one is no longer sharing an earthly experience with us. It is important to understand that our loved ones in spirit want us to go on with our lives and to try to experience as much joy as possible for the time we have on earth. If you need help in getting to this place, there are many resources available, such as grief counselors, life coaches, spirit mediums, friends, family, and more. Often, learning how to manage grief is one of the lessons to be learned for our souls in this lifetime. It is equally as important to understand that the bonds that we have with our loved ones and the love we share cannot be broken by the expiration of our physical bodies. Therefore, we are never truly separated from one another in spirit.

Guidance from the Other Side

Our guys and gals in heaven work from a place of light, love, and expanded knowledge. Their purpose for communicating with you, directly or through a spirit medium, is to bring healing and guidance to your life. A person who has reached a state of acceptance regarding a person’s passing is much more likely to get the most out of their reading with a spirit medium. This is because grief is no longer clouding his or her ability to be receptive to the information being shared. This does not mean that you do not miss your loved ones, it means that you have accepted that he or she has transitioned to heaven, and have made the conscious choice to continue your personal journey on this earth. When it is your time to cross over into heaven, you will be reunited with your loved ones in spirit, including any pets and animals that have made a significant impact on your life or you on theirs. In the meantime, your loved ones in spirit will continue to watch over you, as well as send you messages and signs letting you know that they are around.

They Communicate with You, Too!

Your loved ones in spirit use your senses, too, to let you know that they are around.* For example, they may place visual images in front of you that remind you of them. My father often uses signs related to firefighters and trains to let me know he is around. In addition, loved ones in spirit may play music in your head to give you answers to your prayers or that reminds you of them. You may also feel their presence, smell their perfume, or have strong taste cravings for the food they used to cook. They orchestrate these wondrous occurrences for you in ways that are challenging for the human mind to comprehend. Unfortunately, some people dismiss these occurrences and try to explain them away as coincidences. Nothing in this world is a coincidence, and it would truly amaze you to be able to comprehend the ways in which spiritual beings on the Other Side facilitate events on earth. They do so with our best interests at heart, and to help us navigate our journeys. Remember, they use a myriad of ways to get our attention, including our dreams.* When you see them there, it is your loved ones in spirit trying to help you to overcome your fears, to provide messages of comfort, and to help you to work through issues you face on a daily basis.

Namaste!

*Note: My book, How Have You Loved?, contains a lot of in-depth information about how your loved ones in spirit communicate with you, including how to interpret your dreams, why we are really here on earth, what we are to accomplish in our lifetimes, and how we can achieve our soul objectives.

With Light and Love,
Karen T. Hluchan

Spirit Medium, Motivational Speaker, Reiki Master, & Author of How Have You Loved?

www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

Karen T. Hluchan is a spirit medium, motivational speaker, Reiki master, and author of How Have You Loved? Through her mediumship practice, Healing Spirit with Love, she devotes her time to the healing of spirit on earth through her connection with heaven. Her passion for her calling is shared through the spirit readings, demonstrations, and workshops she provides, as well as through her writing and Reiki. All of her work is inspired by the divine light that is within us all. She has a great love of nature, people, and the planet, and she enjoys her connection in spirit, both here and in heaven.
To learn more about Karen, who is based in Horsham, Pennsylvania, and her book, How Have You Loved?, visit her website at www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com.

Comments

  1. Robyn M Fountain says:

    i lost my first born daughter in july 2016, she and I were connected in a mystical way, I know this might sound a bit unbelievable to most people but from the moment I had a dream that i had a baby GIRL when I was only 16 and very knieve about well EVERYTHING, and had no idea I was pregnant yet nor even had crossed my mind, UNTILL I HAD THAT DREAM, a couple months later I found out I was 3 months pregnant,,and i swear we communicated while I was pregnant as if we could have conversations, it was like we were sharing the same mind and soul, and of course we WERE sharing BODY at the time, IT continued untill 2 months b4 she died, I was blind to the whole thing even though i had been told in a round about way by doctors as she was in the ICU unill she just died, I feel so guilty and absolutely EMPTY, I need to speak with her to know, and she knows what I mean by that, i cannot find her, and im afraid im just slipping away from this world because I must KNOW, and I need to be there if she is afraid or needs help she was sick her whole life physically but had the soul of a LOVING WARRIOR, but I have to know, how can I unblock myself so i can communicate with her, plz can you help US

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Robyn – I am sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter. Have no fear, she is doing well in heaven. Children who cross over into heaven are surrounded by loved ones in spirit, and they continue to grow, thrive, play, and learn. I am very concerned about you feeling as though you are “slipping away from this world.” Have you talked with a professional therapist about your feelings and what you are going through? It is important for you to reach out for help from a professional therapist, especially if you are having thoughts of harming yourself. If you are in immediate danger of harming yourself, call the National Suicide Hotline at 1-800-273-8255. They will help you with your immediate needs, and will help you find a therapist that will help you on your journey toward healing your heart. As for communicating directly with your daughter, please know that while each of us has the ability to communicate with spirit to some degree, not everyone will be able to directly communicate with fluency. I teach people how to communicate with spirit; however, it is important to note that lower energies such as grief, guilt, anger, depression, and more have a tendency to block one’s ability to communicate with spirit. You can help yourself in many ways by working on forgiving yourself for the loss of your daughter. Blaming yourself and thinking negative thoughts about yourself will not bring her back, it will only prevent you from moving forward. Call on Archangel Azrael to help you with the coping of your grief – it is the specialty of this ArchAngel. Sending you lots of love, peace, and blessings. Be sure to reach out to a therapist to help you with your grief, Robyn. Help is needed to heal your heart. I hope you receive what you need to welcome more peace and understanding into your life.

  2. hello
    just asking some questions about reincarnation I cannot
    see why anybody in there right mind would want to come
    back to this violent and cruel world I certainly don’t also
    why is it that on most of mediums and psychics has such
    unusual names ‘

    thanks

    • healings-admin says:

      Thank you for your inquiry. The questions you are asking are not easily answered in just a few words. People write entire books on this subject. I will do my best to give an extremely condensed version for you. Yes, life on earth can be difficult and challenging. We come here to learn lessons for our souls. The negativity that exists on earth does not exist like this in heaven, which is why we need to, at times, visit this location in order to push our learning through at an accelerated level. Our time on earth can also be equated to a required course in college. You may not want to take it, but you need to in order to graduate. Others come here to help members of our soul groups (family, friends, even the world), with important lessons. Yes, life on earth can be challenging, but there is a positive purpose for every circumstance we face, even if it is not understood at the time.

      There is so much more to our existence than what appears to be. Our time on earth is but a short blip on the entire existence of our souls. Life on earth is one of the trips we opt to take when we want to accelerate the learning process for our souls.

      As for the unusual names, not all mediums and psychics have unusual last names. It is a family name that originates from Czechslovakia. As far as I understand, it translates to “wood grouse.”

    • I would like to no if my love one my fiance can hear what im saying like whe im in the room our in the shower to give me answer why she did what she did our if she around if she hear what im saying to show sign all i see is hearts in the sky our just white butterfly everywhere i go..just wanna no if she can hear me

      • healings-admin says:

        Hello Prince,

        My deepest condolences to you regarding the loss of your fiance. Our loved ones in spirit hear us when we think of them and when we speak out loud to them. They show us signs when they are around, as well. I am glad you are recognizing the white butterflies and hearts as her signs to you. She definitely hears you. As for receiving direct answers from her, there are ways you can receive them from her, such as in your dreams, through repeated signs from her and more. Sitting for a private Spirit Medium Reading would provide you with the opportunity to connect with your loved ones in spirit and receive answers. If you are interested in booking a private reading, you can contact me at SpiritMedium@comcast.net.

        I have a lot of information about me and the services I provide on my website, as well as many articles about Heaven, what happens when we cross over, and how loved ones in spirit send signs and messages to you: https://www.healingspiritwithlove.com/. The articles can be very helpful when you are searching for answers about the Other Side.

        Sending much love, peace, and prayers your way. I am also asking Archangel Michael to send you his strength and courage to help you during this time of great transition and change.

        With Love and Light,
        Karen T. Hluchan

        http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  3. I just want to know if my grandmother hear me talking to her. She said she was gone come visit me but I’m not sure if she has.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Erica,

      Yes, our loved ones in spirit hear us when we talk about them and think about them. They provide many signs using all of our senses when they are around us. You may smell a scent, hear a song, or see images that remind you of her. I have more articles on my inspirational blog page (https://www.healingspiritwithlove.com/inspirational-blog/) about the many ways loved ones in spirit send us signs that they are around.

      • i lost my grammy 7-11-17 ive been having dreams of having a little girl. also i was talking oujt loud and ask for a sign and felt cold air behind me

        • healings-admin says:

          Hello Jessica,

          Thank you for reaching out to me. I am sorry to hear of the loss of your grandmother. As a note, our loved ones in spirit rarely send a cold temperature to let us know they are around (Hollywood tries to convince people about the cold temps which is incorrect). They usually send a feeling of warmth and love. In addition, they send other signs such as visual images that remind you of them, butterflies, cardinals, coins found in unusual places, and feathers. You may also smell a scent that reminds you of them or experience minor issues with electronics (freezing up) or lights blinking. There are thousands of ways they let us know they are around; however, when we are in deep grief it is difficult for people to recognize the signs. Please know your grandmother is happy in heaven and will continue to watch over you. As for the little girl in your dreams, she may be representative of you. In my book, How Have You Loved?, I write about the many ways our loved ones in spirit communicate, as well as how to interpret your dreams. Our loved ones in spirit love to help us on a daily basis, and learning about how they send signs and messages will help you understand not only that they are visiting you, but also what messages they have for you. Sending lots of love and peace your way.

          With Light and Love,
          Karen

          • Here is an unusual event that happened to me:

            I was a caregiver for a long time to my close friend that passed away recently.

            When he was still at home (he was in hospice care when he passed) he would only watch his favorite TV show, all the time, on his 32″ TV (biggest size that would fit). It was inside a custom made cabinet that extended the entire length of the wall. I asked him since he had all that space on top of the cabinet, why not let me get him a larger TV to put on top, so he could really enjoy the show. He would always say “No. It’s big enough.” I tried several times, to get him to change his mind but he didn’t want a bigger TV, so I stopped asking.

            Since he passed I have been staying at his place (he was extremely generous and left it to me in the Will). Last week, the power went out in the building (Condominiums). I looked outside and the lights were out along the pathway to the building, but they were on at the building next door. I didn’t really think anything of it at the time but thought it was unusual that it was only this building that the power was out. A couple of hours later, the power was on again.

            Here is the strange part. Later that night, I went to put the TV on and the screen flashed a few times and the green power light blinked off and on. Then it just stopped. I tried to plug the TV into different outlets but it was still not working. Then I checked everything else that was plugged into the surge protector, and they still worked as usual. So, it was only the TV that got fried, even though it was on a surge protector.

            I never heard of people that passed away communicating through electronics, except when I came across the message posted above.

            The power did go out, so it should only be a coincidence that it was the TV that happened to be the only piece of equipment that was damaged.

            Now it has me wondering…was this his way of telling me, that it’s OK to now buy a bigger TV set…lol….or could it be some other message….(???)

          • healings-admin says:

            Hello Joe,

            I am sorry to hear of the loss of your friend. Thank you so much for sharing your story. I am glad my blog article helped you to recognize the signs your friend was sending you. Our guys and gals in heaven know what will get our attention, and your friend took the perfect action for you. If it was the toaster that broke, it would not have had any meaning behind it. I love that he used the TV to get your attention. By the way, I would say, yes, you can certainly buy yourself that new TV. 🙂

            Sending lots of love and blessings your way.

            With Light and Love,
            Karen T. Hluchan

  4. Hi i am alma from the philippines i lost my daughter last march 6 of 2017.she died of leukemia and i am really having difficulty adjusting to her loss,although i grieved with hope but there are instances that the pain is so much that sometimes i ask the Lord why He allows this circumstances. I can sense that she is with me because i always smells her fav cokogne whenever i am lost of words and missing her so much.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Alma – I am sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter. She is a beautiful soul who is with the angels in heaven, as well as your loved ones in spirit. Coping with the loss of a child is one of the most difficult events for one to endure in this lifetime. Your daughter’s passing was not a punishment. All of us are loved by God. Prior to our births, we agreed to learn certain lessons while living our lives on earth. Some of those lessons can be extremely painful and trying; however, they are necessary for the growth of our souls. When you are feeling particularly sad or in need of a boost from heaven, I recommend calling on Archangel Azrael to help with the grieving process. I am glad you know when she is around. Loved ones in spirit give us many signs using all of our senses. She sends you her love and wants you to know she sends you butterflies to let you know she is around and to bring you joy.

      With Light and Love,
      Karen

  5. Jennifer L. Hill says:

    My brother was murdered 6/17/16. I have not felt or seen his presence since then. I know he has been with my daughter and our mother. I have prayed to god to just give me a sign that he is at peace with everything. I want to know why he was taken so soon and can he help me help mama through all this mess. I love and miss him so much I cry every day.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Jennifer – I am sorry to hear about the loss of your brother. Here is another article I wrote about the ways our loved ones in spirit share signs and try to get messages through to you: https://www.healingspiritwithlove.com/inspirational-blog/page/2/. If you are interested in finding out more about your brother, I would recommend booking a reading with me. Through a Spirit Medium Reading, reading, I communicate with your loved ones in spirit and bring through their messages for you. Readings can be delivered in person, over the phone or via Skype/FaceTime. I do so for people all over the world. If you are interested in setting up an appointment, you can email me at SpiritMedium@comcast.net.

      Again, I am sorry for your loss. It is difficult to lose a loved one in this manner. Please know that we all go to heaven and receive healing and love, and that is what has been happening for your brother.

      • Kimberly Davis says:

        I Jennifer sorry for your loss. Oct 1 I recently lost a loved one of 7 years to a massive heart attach. Things are so crazy right now I have lots of questions. But me and my family is scared to see him. But we know he is ok but just seeing him let’s us know he is ok.. I’m trying to be strong for my kids. He died in front of me the worst experience ever.. Everybody say I need counseling but I feel ok just don’t want to do anything

        • healings-admin says:

          Hello Kimberly,

          Thank you for reaching out to Jennifer to offer her comfort. I am sorry to hear of the loss of your own loved one and send love and peace to the heart of your spirit, as well as to your children. When our loved ones in spirit reveal themselves to us through a full manifestation, in our dreams, or through outward signs that remind us of them, they are attempting to communicate a message to you. Often, it is to let you know they are doing well in Heaven and that they are still in existence in spirit. There is nothing to fear because they come to us in love, even if we did not have the best relationships with them in life. In my book, “How Have You Loved?,” I write about the many ways our loved ones in spirit and the angels send us signs they are around. It truly is all about love and healing.

          Sending love, peace, and blessings to you and your children. It is difficult to lose a loved one, especially in an unexpected manner right in front of you. My heart goes out to you, and I hope you are doing the best you can to heal.

          With Light and Love,
          Karen T. Hluchan

          http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  6. Dolly Sem says:

    Hi dear. My name is Dolly Sem. I lost my husband on 12 th of may 2017. He succummed to cancer. He was getting better according to reports. Doctors were surprised saying miraculous recovery. But thing turned and he passed away on one month. i want to kmow what happened. We shared a beautiful relationship. I cant stop crying. Am going into depression. Is my love fine and at peace. His birth date is …10/ 2/1968…name Vishal Sem

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Dolly,

      Thank you so much for reaching out to me about your husband. I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I sent you a private email in response to your query. Asking the angels to help heal your heart at this time.

      With Light and Love,
      Karen

  7. Misty Dixon says:

    Hello Ms. Karen my name is Misty and I lost my husband of 23 years on April 28,2017. I m pleased to say that he has sent us signs that he is ok.I have even received a message from him on my phone. I miss him more than any words can ever explain. I am struggling with his passing it was totally unexpected. I woke up to find him deceased on the kitchen floor. He was fine when I went bed and had not complained about anything.But when I got up to go to work he was gone. My biggest struggle is not knowing what actually caused his sudden death. Although have a idea I am not completely sure.i believe this is my biggest issue on not being able to start the total griefing process. I will begin therapy next week under the advice of my family doctor. I have talked to Craig several times and have asked him to please help me understand what happened but yet he hasn’t sent me anything that would confirm wether his pass was natural or murder. His doctor ruled it as natural but I really don’t believe that is what happened. So my question is is there a certain way to ask him to show me or give me some idea of what happened so Mabry his son and I can get some kind of closure.mabey it’s not ment for me to know but I won’t feel totally satisfied without knowing. Please help me in anyway possible I want to go to a medium but not really sure who to trust or if I can even afford to go. Thank you in advance for any advice you might have.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Misty,

      I am sorry to hear of the sudden passing of your husband. There are several ways in which a person can pass suddenly due to natural causes. This is the case with your husband. It was not murder. In your grief, it may be challenging for you to recognize the signs your husband is sending to you. He will use a variety of ways to get your attention. When sitting for a reading with a spirit medium, we help your loved ones in spirit to bring through clear communications and identifying information that can be validated. I also help people to understand the many ways they are trying to get signs and messages to you. If you would like to set up an appointment, please contact me at SpiritMedium@comcast.net. I provide readings in-person in Pennsylvania, as well as over the phone and via Skype or FaceTime. As a note, I also have many articles on my website that may help you to better understand how your loved ones in spirit try to get messages through to you. Here are two links to articles and videos on my website:

      https://www.healingspiritwithlove.com/spirit-medium-readings/
      https://www.healingspiritwithlove.com/inspirational-blog/

      Sending lots of love, healing energy, and peace to you and your son.

      With Light and Love,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      • Misty Dixon says:

        Hello Ms.Karen, it has been almost a year and half since my husband died.I would like to thank you for your much need love and healing energy to me and my son. We are still grieving the loss of Craig, but your column and articles have been very helpful. At times they bring me back to reality and remind me that Craig is gone and I must continue to live life as it was ment for me to live. Knowing that we have soul contracts has been the biggest help for me. Realizing why me and Craig crossed paths in life,the lessons that we taught each other and the knowledge he gave me so I would be able to continue live life like I was ment to after he passed.Because of the knowledge I gained and the less I grieve the more open I have made myself be able to except messages from him and he uses such beautiful dreams to send them at times Once again I want to thank you and tell you what a blessing you sharing your knowledge about our loved ones on the other side has help my son and I

        Yours Truly,
        Misty

        • healings-admin says:

          Hello Misty,

          Thank you so much for your post! It warms my heart to know I have helped you and your son. My deepest condolences to you regarding the loss of your husband, Craig. I am glad he shows up in your dreams to share messages with you. It sounds like you are also open to the many signs he sends you to let you know he is around.

          Sending much love and many blessings to you and your son. Your husband, Craig, will continue to watch over the two of your from Heaven. He sends his love and encouragement to both of you.

          With Love and Light,
          Karen T. Hluchan

          http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  8. My husband passed away on 06-16-2017. He was on his way to work and was in a single vehicle accident. He was 55 years old and I am 44 years old. We have no children together but he has a son from a previous marriage. I am saddened by his passing as you can imagine. I grieve because I want to know if he is in Heaven and I want to know that he wasn’t taken away before his time. I don’t know what happened if he had a heart attack or fell asleep. Can you help me understand?

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Amy,

      Thank you for your inquiry. I am sorry to hear of the loss of your husband who is now in Heaven. The information you are asking for regarding his manner of his passing is best delivered through a spirit medium reading (https://www.healingspiritwithlove.com/spirit-medium-readings/). Not all answers are simple and I get the impression you are looking for more information than just the manner of his passing. I provide readings Wednesday through Saturday, both days and evenings to people all over the world. To book a reading, send me an email at SpiritMedium@comcast.net and let me know if you would like to book an individual 30-minute reading or an individual 1-hour reading (pricing can be found here: https://www.healingspiritwithlove.com/pricing-for-services/.

      Sending peace and love to the heart of your spirit. Hang in there and allow yourself time to grieve. I know it is difficult when you lose someone you dearly love.

      With Light and Love,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  9. Hi Ms.Karen.My boy friend rather soul mate passed away on 30/06/2017 in an accident. It was so unexpected that I am still not able to accept that he has passed on. He meant so much to me. Is he still with me? I don’t know how long I can carry on without him. We loved each other very dearly. How can I communicate with him? I feel miserable without him.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Jitha,

      I am sorry to hear about the passing of your boyfriend. Even though he has crossed over into heaven, the love you share with one another will always reside within the hearts of your spirits. He does visit you and sends you signs he is around. There are many ways in which he does this. Sometimes, though, grief can make it challenging to recognize the signs and messages being sent. Here are a few articles I have written that may help you to recognize the ways he is letting you know he is around:

      https://www.healingspiritwithlove.com/why-recognizing-signs-from-spirit-is-important-to-your-life-path-2/
      https://www.healingspiritwithlove.com/spirit-medium-readings-a-two-part-process/
      https://www.healingspiritwithlove.com/inspirational-blog/page/7/

      Whenever you think about your boyfriend or talk about him, he hears you. He also reads anything that you write to him or about him. If you would like to share your thoughts and love with him, you can write a heartfelt letter, knowing he will read it in heaven.

      I do teach people how to communicate with loved ones in heaven through my Communicate with Spirit Workshops, as well as ways you can ask questions and receive answers from your loved ones in spirit (the methods are listed in my book, How Have You Loved?.

      As a note, I also provide private readings in-person at my location in Horsham, PA, as well as readings over the phone, Skype, and FaceTime to people all over the world. If you would like to communicate with your loved ones in spirit, this is another option for you. If you are interested in booking a reading, please contact me at SpiritMedium@comcast.net.

      I feel your pain. Please know, though, that the pain will lessen with each day that passes. You are meant to be here to fulfill your own destiny here on earth. The connection you have with your boyfriend cannot be broken. When your heart is heavy with grief, you can call on Archangel Azrael to help you to process your feelings in an healthy way. You may also benefit from talking with a therapist or counselor in order to help you through this process.

      Sending love, peace, and prayers,
      Karen T. Hluchan

  10. I know my mum is around me she passed on the 2nd July 2017. I was a bit hurt when my friend said to me that she may be unsettled . I hope she isnt as she did worry alot, I was with her up to her last breath and I loved her so much. I even said a prayer to her as she was dying and continue to do so.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Josie,

      I am sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. She is settled in heaven and with her loved ones in spirit who have already crossed over before her, as well as with the angels. I am curious as to why your friend would think she would be unsettled. Is it because you have been receiving a lot of signs that she is around? If you have, it is only because she is reaching out to let you know she is ok and that she loves you. Even though our loved ones in spirit cross over into Heaven, they can still visit us and send us signs and messages. They love to help us with our lives and let us know they are still in existence in Heaven. The love you share within your hearts keeps you connected with one another. It is a bond that cannot be broken.

      Sending lots of love and peace to the heart of your spirit, Josie.

      With Light and Love,
      Karen T. Hluchan

  11. I’m having the worse time my boyfriend of 4 1/2 yrs mother passed last month and I helped him through it then he passed 8 days unexpected and I wasn’t ready for him to go I heard they go to look over you but I have 7 kids wasn’t he just fine helping me here on earth.. my heart is so broken I miss him so bad on top of that my cousin/best friend passed yesterday.. I mean I can’t take this I’m such a gaulible person I don’t have the heart for ppl leaving me like they are.. My heart is with him and I wear a different shirt with our pic every day I had so much I needed to say why? N my phone is shattered and my heart in the same day don’t know what it means but it plays his ringtone and it’s still shattered.. please help me to understand why I being a single mom didn’t need him.. did his mom need him in heaven? Thank you

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Ashley,

      I am sorry to hear about the loss of your boyfriend. You are in deep grief right now and need to give yourself time to heal. His passing has nothing to do with who needed what on earth or in heaven. I will note, however, that there are often lessons for our souls tied into these events. It is the reason why we are here on this earth. It was your boyfriend’s time to return to heaven. It was written in a soul contract that was created before he was born on earth. I am sure your boyfriend and your cousin would have preferred to stay here on earth; however, it was time for them to go. It is not that you did not need him your boyfriend. It is clear that you do and that you have a lot of love for him. Please know that he will do what he can from heaven; however, you need to continue with your life here. Our loved ones in spirit do watch over us from heaven, and they do hear us when we talk about them and when we speak about them. There are many ways in which they send us messages and signs indicating they are around. Deep grief, though, can sometimes prevent you from recognizing them. I recommend reading the many articles on my website at: https://www.healingspiritwithlove.com/inspirational-blog/ and /or my book, How Have You Loved?, which explains why we are here, how soul contracts work, how loved ones in spirit communicate not only with me, but also you, and much more. Take time for your heart to heal. I am asking the angels to help you with the grieving in your heart.

      Sending love and peace to the heart of your spirit.

      With Light and Love,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  12. Hello Karen,

    thank you for your website. It is very helpful. In January I lost my partner, he got brain bleeding. We were in relationship almost 7 years. It was horrible. I loved him so much and I still do. After his death I found out that he had a wife and 2 daughters in another country. He lived two lives. There were many lies.. He was a liar, but I believe that he loved me. I do not know.. Three weeks after his death I found out that I was pregnant. That was really shock. I lived so big grief, but our baby came as a gift. She gave to my life a true sense. I was happy.. but then the doctors said that my baby-girl would be borne damaged and would be disabled. They found defects on the brain. That was tragedy. I loved her so much and I will forever. My family and doctors forced me to term my pregnancy 2 months ago. I was in 5-th month of my pregnancy. Nobody can imagine my pain and grief. My life lost a sense. My family is in the heaven, my beautiful daughter and her father. I pray for them each day and I am waiting on some signs that they are ok. I do not see them in my dreams, only sometimes I find coins. I yearn to be a mama and to have my daughter back. I have read that the souls of baby can come back as a next child. I do not know.. but I also still love my partner and I think that to have an other partner is not fair to my deceased partner. Oh my life seems to be so tragedy, it really pains. I do not know what to do.
    Sorry for my english, I am from Europe (Slovakia).

    Thank you for some advice.

    With love Lubica

    • healings-admin says:

      Dear Lubica,

      I am sorry to hear of the tragedies you have endured, including the loss of your daughter and your partner, as well as the lies he told you. In time, your heart will heal, and I hope you open yourself up to meeting someone who is worthy of the love in your heart. At times, grief can mask our ability to recognize signs from loved ones in spirit. Sadness can be all-consuming, and it would be good to give yourself time to grieve. The signs will come when you are ready. As for remaining alone as a gesture of fairness to your partner, I understand your love for him; however, you do not need to remain alone to honor anyone. In fact, loved ones in spirit often come through encouraging people on earth to continue on with their lives by opening themselves up to new relationships. Deceased spouses and partners want their loved ones on earth to be happy.

      As for your daughter in heaven, please know that she grows and plays in heaven. She is surrounded by the angels and your loved ones in spirit who have already crossed over. Send her love from your heart and know she is well taken care of in Heaven. In my book, How Have You Loved?, I write about what happens to loved ones in heaven, soul contracts for lessons on earth, how our loved ones in spirit communicate with us, and more. Reading it may bring you comfort and help to answer the many questions you have. You may also want to consider grief counseling to help you through this difficult time. I am asking Archangel Azrael to help you to not only cope with the loss of your loved ones, but also to help you to believe in yourself and to know you deserve to be loved and honored.

      Sending love and peace to the heart of your spirit, Lubica.

      With Light and Love,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

      • Melisa Kasprow says:

        Hello Karen

        My ex boyfriend died 9/10/17 and I feel so guilty. We really never broke up I had to leave him because of school in another state but we always remained in contact, and promised each other we would reunite when I fished school and for everything togther . He died , I feel horrible because I didn’t call him to check up on him since the hurricane was heading he’s way. I haven’t text him I didn’t say I love him. I hat feel so bad and I miss him tremenduosly . He would always tell me we are soulmates he never met or spoke to anyone else for years since he was waiting on me and he died . We were living in deferent states and I wasn’t there I wasn’t even at he’s funeral I never found out until the last minute. I did however dream about him a week after he died. In my dream he videod me thro Skype and I saw him on my laptop he looked sooo good smiling and kept saying my name but then I woke up. What do you think that meant . I also dreamed about him the next day , he said he would meet me at 4 o clock. If only it was real.

        • healings-admin says:

          Hello Melisa,

          I am very sorry to hear about the passing of your ex-boyfriend. I am sending a tremendous amount of love and peace to the heart of your spirit. His passing is not your fault. I hope that someday you can forgive yourself for the actions you took prior to his passing. There was no way you could have known this would have happened. Try not to be too hard on yourself. When he came to you in your dreams, that was really him. He wanted to let you know he was ok. His repeating of your name in the dream was intentional to wake you up. We only really remember our dreams when we are in the Rapid Eye Movement (R.E.M) cycle of sleep. He did that so that you would wake up and remember he came and visited you. He will always be a part of your heart, as well as your cherished memories. He is with his loved ones in spirit in heaven who have already crossed over. I have a very strong feeling that he will continue to give you visual signs, as well as signs through music when he is visiting you from heaven. If you are ever interested in communicating with him, I do provide private readings in person at my location in Horsham, PA, as well as over the phone, Skype, and FaceTime to people all over the world. To make an appointment, you can email me at SpiritMedium@comcast.net or call me at 215-738-5538.

          Sending love and peace to your heart and asking Archangel Azrael to help you to cope with the loss of your ex-boyfriend.

          Much love and blessings to you, Melisa.

          With Light and Love,
          Karen T. Hluchan

          http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  13. Hi. My sister tragically died when her house burnt down 2 1/2 weeks ago. Sadly our relationship wasn’t as close as I would have liked. I feel so guilty for not trying harder to be close to her. I miss her and am not sure she knew how much I loved her. I feel tormented.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Kim,

      I am sorry to hear of the loss of your sister and that your relationship was not the best prior to her passing. Even though she is in Heaven, she can still hear you when you think about her, talk about her, and write to her or about her. Have you considered writing her a letter sharing your thoughts and feelings? She will read it in Heaven. You can keep it for yourself in a special box where you keep momentos of her.

      Please know your sister loves you and understands why events in life occurred the way they did. She is in Heaven now with all of your loved ones in spirit and pets, and is doing her best to cope with her transition as you are here on earth. Hopefully, you can someday forgive yourself. She wants you to love who you are and make the most of your time with people here. She sends you love from Heaven.

      Sending love and peace to the heart of your spirit.

      With Light and Love,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  14. I lost my husband in March of 2015. In October of that year, I was driving one evening, and listening to a classic rock station. I was thinking about him, and said aloud “Are you okay, where are you?” Then the radio station played the song “Spirit in the Sky”. I felt comforted by that while driving home. When I got home, I kicked off my shoes, and poured myself a glass of iced tea. I sat down and put my glass on the coffee table, still thinking about him, and wondering if he was home in heaven. I closed my eyes for a moment as I sat back on the couch, preparing to turn on the TV. All of a sudden out of no where a vision played across my mind like a motion picture of him sliding into home base and he was showing me he was safe on the home plate. My husband was on a softball league for most of his adult life. That message could not have been any clearer, and in answer to my question, just as I thought it. I have had many more experiences since, but that one was the most significant to me.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Joanne,

      I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your husband, Joanne. I truly appreciate the sharing of your story about the way your husband let you know where he was and that he was doing well in heaven. Our loved ones in spirit send us signs and messages on a daily basis. They use all of our senses to get messages through. It is wonderful you were able to interpret them for yourself. It is one of the reasons I teach mediumship (spirit communication) to people. We all have this gift to some degree, and the more people can tap into this wonderful connection, the more at peace the world will be because, with it, comes the realization and proof that there is more our existence beyond life on earth.

      Sending love and peace to your heart, Joanne, and continued awareness of the signs and messages from your loved ones in spirit, especially your beloved husband.

      With Light and Love,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  15. Hey Karen T. Hluchan,
    I lost my father last month. He succumbed to Hepatitis B. The bitter part of it is that the disease was discovered just two weeks before he died after being sick for roughly 3 months. I had stayed for nearly 6 months without seeing him since we were staying far apart. I had known he was sick (though not so serious) but kept postponing my visits (due to busy schedule) till the last day when he insisted that I should go visit him. I called home early in the morning and he insisted that I go see him that very day which really scared me. Upon getting home, we talked very well, shared stories; I served him his last meal which was fruits, an Apple fruit and some grapes and literally laughed upon my wedding moments. It was a happy moment for us. After spending around 2 hours, he said he was nauseated, after which he vomited blood and fainted. We took him to hospital at around 5 pm, however, during that moment; he gained his conscious and talked to us very well. Sadly, minutes to midnight of the same day, my dad died. It was terrible. Did he know he was going to die? Is that the reason he insisted that I should go home to see him? If then he knew this, why didn’t he tell us so that we can stay with him till his last breath (he was with my mom at the hospital)?
    Basically my grieving process has been not so bad, however, I’ve been blaming myself too much. Like, why did I just have to see him for a single day after 6 months of separation?
    After his burial, I’ve dreamed of him twice, both instances was about him dying..It’s really painful.
    Kindly I want to know whether he is safe. Is he resting? I feel like I really wanna talk to him, but then, I feel the need to release him and let him rest in peace.
    Thank you in advance.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Irene,

      I am sorry to hear about the loss of your father. You asked if he was consciously aware that he was dying and, if he did, why didn’t he tell you. The answer to this is not a clear cut as you might think. Your father, while very ill, may have thought his time was coming; however, I am not getting the impression that he knew without a shadow of a doubt that he was definitively going to die at the moment he did. He was sick for several months and was not improving. When we are very ill, the thought of death does cross one’s mind. Because of this, we may feel a strong urge to see our loved ones in order to spend time with them, share moments and words of love, to clear the air of any lingering issues, and more. Your dad was certainly feeling this very strong urging to see you on the last day you visited him. I am glad you had a chance to see him before he passed. Many people are not blessed with that time at all. I am hoping you will someday realize what a blessing it was to spend time with him before he passed. Asking why this and not that is a sign of your grief with his passing. It will take time to heal and to incorporate the lessons learned through his passing.

      The dreams you are experiencing are messages from your subconscious about the guilt you are carrying in your heart about the circumstances surrounding your father’s passing. Your dad is doing well in Heaven, he is at peace, and will continue to watch over you. You do not need to worry about “releasing him” because you are not holding him here to the earth and you do not need to worry about “letting him rest in peace” because he is in Heaven and he is at peace already. The relationships we have with our loved ones continues beyond life on earth. You are not “disturbing their peace” when you communicate with them. If anything, you bring greater joy and happiness to each other as you continue to recognize and maintain the love that connects you with one another.

      If you are interested in booking a reading to communicate with your loved ones in spirit, you can send me an email at SpiritMedium@comcast.net. I would be happy to assist you and help you to heal during this time of transition for you and your dad.

      Sending lots of love and peace to the heart of your spirit, Irene.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  16. My mom passed Thursday 11/9/2017 and I just want to know she is safe . This was a unexpected thing that happened and I miss her so much .

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Bethany,

      I am sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. She is in heaven and reuniting with loved ones who have already crossed over before her. Sending lots of peace and love to your heart. Give yourself time to grieve and adjust to this major transition in your life. Your mother is with the angels, God, and all of her loved ones in spirit.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  17. Billy Nicholls says:

    Hi there,
    I lost my father to sudden cardiac arrest on 6 July 2017.
    The night he died, me and him went to the beach as it was something he wanted to do, but it was totally out of character. Do you think he had a premonition that something was going to happen?
    I have had a few strange happenings since he’s passed: feather, lights flickering, clock going back, sudden feelings he was there and butterflies to name a few. Do you think this is him or just pure coincidence? I also lost my mother in 1999 so I hope they’re back together.
    Hope to hear from you soon x

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Billy,

      I am sorry to hear of the loss of your father and your mother. I lost mine in the same way years ago. Sometimes, when we are getting closer to our time, we receive urges from our angels and loved ones in spirit to take an action that will bring us and others joy. It is not as if your father knew he was passing; however, the angels and loved ones in spirit did, and they wanted to provide both him and you with cherished memories prior to his passing. It was a gift from above that I am glad the two of you enjoyed together. As for your mom and dad, they are together in heaven and continue to watch over you as guardian angels.

      As for the unusual occurrences, there are no coincidences. All of these are signs from your loved ones in spirit. They love to let us know they are around. They often manipulate electronics, place items in our path and play music that reminds us of them, and much more. I have many articles on my website that discuss the various ways they send signs and messages to us. Look on my Spirit Medium Readings page and my Inspirational Blog page for more information.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

      • Billy Nicholls says:

        Thanks for the reply, and I’m sorry for the delay of my reply. Its been nearly 7 months now, but this is the worst phase I’ve felt for a long time because I just can’t get over the fact he’s no longer around. I’ve also asked if he can send me some signs again, but they have been hard to come by recently. I’m worried that I might have upset him in some way x

        • healings-admin says:

          Hello Billy,

          I am sorry to hear you are going through a difficult time. Grieving is a process that we go through and some times can be more difficult than others. The first year is the hardest as you are living through all of the firsts without your loved one with you physically on this Earth with you. In one of your statements, you used the word “can’t.” The phrase was “I just can’t get over the fact he’s no longer around.” There is a quote by Henry Ford that I find extremely helpful – “Whether you think you can or think you can’t, you’re right.” Try changing your thought process from “can’t” to “having a hard time.” This may help you to work through the issues rather than setting yourself up for being stuck.

          As for the signs, our loved ones in spirit fo their best to send us signs. Sometimes, when we are deep in grief, our sadness makes us look inwards instead of outwards to the signs our loved ones are sending us. At other times, our loved ones in spirit may seem as though they have not been around for a bit or have gone silent. They are still there. There are times, though, when they are not allowed to interfere with our lives because we have a decision to make that they are not allowed to influence. Either way, please know your loved ones are there, even if you are having a hard time recognizing the signs. I keep getting music as one of the ways he sends you signs. Not only music that plays on the radio, but also in your head. Pat attention to it, as he is letting you know he is around.

          You will get through this time by the grace of God. You have the strength of the angels at your back. Hang in there, Billy, and remember the good times, as well as all of the good things you do have in your life.

          Sending you much love and peace to the heart of your spirit.

          With Love and Light,
          Karen T. Hluchan

          http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

          • Billy Nicholls says:

            Thanks Karen, I feel a little better about things now so hopefully that will stick! When you say music, do you mean my dad is sending me music or was that just in general? Have you made contact with him?

          • healings-admin says:

            Hello Billy,

            So good to hear back from you! I apologize for the delay in my response. I have been very busy lately. Glad to know you are feeling better. As for the message about the music, whenever I am writing a response to someone, inscribing personal messages in the front of my books, and providing readings, everything that is shared comes directly from your loved ones in spirit. It is not a random message, but rather a message of import from your loved ones in spirit; therefore, the message about music came directly from your dad. So, yes, I have been in contact with your dad. Loved ones in spirit communicate with me and through me, and that happens when I am answering queries, inscribing messages, and providing readings. 🙂

            Sending lots of love and blessings your way, Billy!

            With Love and Light,
            Karen T. Hluchan

            http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

          • Billy Nicholls says:

            It’s fine, I totally understand that you’re busy, and I do appreciate that you reply back to me. It gives me great joy that you’ve connected with my dad. When he first died, it wasn’t the fact he’d gone that hurt me the most (he was very ill for a long time), it was more the fact that I’d never see any of my parents again. With you connecting with him, it’s given me a big lift. He’s been gone over 8 months now, but I still miss him so much and wish I could see him again. I hope he’s happy and healthy. Sorry that I respond a lot I just find it all fascinating

          • healings-admin says:

            I am very happy to hear your heart has been lifted, Billy. If you would ever like to book a private reading with me to hear from your dad, as well as other loved ones in spirit, feel free to email me at SpiritMedium@comcast.net to set up an appointment. Sending lots of love and blessings your way!

            With Love and Light,
            Karen T. Hluchan

            http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  18. I lost my husband to cancer December 2016. We were true soulmates in the truest sense of the word, and our love for each other was simply beautiful. Although I tried to mentally and spiritually prepare myself for his passing that was inevitable, This entire year has been filled with deep depression and with me wondering if he is at peace. Many strange coincidences have taken place since he died. I see combinations of 1:11 or 11:11 11, seconds, and so on. This never happened before he died. Items of his randomly fall of the wall, music that he loved just happen to play on the radio. Immediately after he died I sensed a strong scent of roses. I dont notice that smell as often as I used to, but the items falling off the wall and me seeing the number sequences of 11 still happen consistently. I have been so distraught wondering if he is truly okay and with the Lord (he loved the Lord).The pain in my heart is overwhelming almost a year later with no reprieve day to day.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Marsha,

      I am sorry to hear of the loss of your husband. All of the incidents you are experiencing are not coincidences. They are signs from your hudabnd that he is around you. He has transitioned to Heaven; however, he is trying to let you know he is fine and is still in existence. Our loved ones in spirit try many different ways to get our attention, and it appears your husband and others have been doing just that. In my book, “How Have You Loved?,” I write about what happens when we cross over into heaven, as well as how our loved ones in spirit communicate through signs. The sadness you feel in heart due to the physical separation from your husband is part of the grief process. Please know that the two of you will always be linked to one another through the heart of your spirit. The combinations of 1s, are a sign that the angels are near. They are trying to bring you comfort and indicating that it is time to learn more about them in order to better understand life on earth, as well as our existence beyond this lifetime.

      I am calling on Archangel Azrael to help heal your heart as you cope with the loss of your husband. We are never truly separated from those that we love. I recommend that you learn about how your loved ones in spirit and the angels communicate with you because it will bring you more peace and understanding in your life. I teach beginner through advanced workshops on spirit communication. If you are interested in learning more, visit my website at: https://www.healingspiritwithlove.com/communicate-with-spirit/.

      As a note, I also provide private spirit medium readings to people all over the world. If you are interested in booking a reading with me to connect with your loved ones in spirit, please email me at SpiritMedium@comcast.net.

      Sending lots of love and peace to you.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  19. Hi Karen, I lost my mother Bonnie 3 weeks ago on 11/5/17. I feel that a piece of my died with her, I am beyone heartbroken. She was only 62 and despite having health issues over the years, I did not see this coming and I am blaming myself for not noticing or doing more. I am trying to keep my eyes open for signs from her, signs that she is at peace and made it to the other side and I am worried that her death was painful. I have yet to see any signs. I pray that it wasn’t painful because she went through so much on this earth. I also wonder if she knew her time was coming because when I saw her 6 days prior she seemed normal, and when her doctor saw her the day before he said she was normal but I’m also disturbed because her death certificate said she had a heart attack caused by Sepsis and now I wonder if the nursing home staff missed some signs of infection. I don’t know how I will ever find peace and the strength to go on with my life..

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Shannon,

      I am sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. The deep sadness you are experiencing is part of the grieving process. Blaming yourself for not knowing there was an issue with your mother’s health prior to her passing is not necessary. Even the doctor said she was doing ok prior to her passing. It is your grief speaking when you blame yourself for her passing. It was her time to cross over into Heaven in order to return to God. She is at peace now and she does not want you to blame yourself. You did all that you could reasonably do for her and she appreciates your care. Whenever you think of her and speak of her, she hears you in heaven. She will respond with signs when the time is right. When we are experiencing great sadness, such as the loss of a loved one, it is sometimes challenging to see the signs coming from our loved ones in spirit. This is because we are too busy focusing inward on the pain to recognize the signs around us. As for the pain, I am getting the impression it was not as bad as you are imagining. It is important to remember that she is at peace now and pain-free.

      I am asking Archangel Azrael to help you with your grief. You can call on him any time you feel deep sadness as he will help to bring you to a place of calm and understanding.

      As a note, I do provide private readings to people all over the world. Email me at SpiritMedium@comcast.net if you are interested in setting up an appointment.

      Sending lots of love and peace to you.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  20. Hi Karen,
    My boyfriend of 2yrs passed away unexpectedly of a massive heart attack on July 7 2017. Like usual I had spoken to him all day July 6, 2017 which he sounded happy and perfectly fine and we had made plans earlier to see each other on July 7th. (We had a long distant relationship due to work) after making plans he was so happy and excited and he talked about our future together throughout the day. The last time that we communicated that day on july 6th was at 10:10 pm we had exchanged pictures via text which soon after that he passes awaybatv midnight. Never did i think that would be our last day speaking or texting each other. On July 7, 2017 I called and called and no answer texted and no answer I did that allllll weekend long. I didnt find out until July 11, 2017 at 1:45am that l called his workplace and one of his coworkers told me the devastating and heart breaking news that Gilbert had passed away from a massive heart attack on July 7th at midnight. Burial was on July 13, 2017 which couldn’t get myself to attend due finding out that he had not being honest with me theses 2yrs. However, I needed to have some type of closure and decided to go to the cementry. Never in a million years did I think I would be looking for him in a cementry to say my last goodbye. I have been completely heartbroken, confused, hurt and empty since then and everyday I have looked and prayed for some type of closure or sign from him and nothing. I don’t even see him in my dreams either. Why? Does he know that know he’s gone? I didn’t even get a chance to say goodbye or tell him how much I loved him.
    Please help me

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Lorena,

      I am sorry to hear about the sudden loss of your boyfriend. I am also sorry to hear that he had not been honest with you during the time you were together. He has made his transition into Heaven and he is fully aware that he has done so. With regard to signs, when we are experiencing deep grief, it is sometimes difficult for us to recognize the signs from our loved ones in spirit because our sadness turns our attention inward on the pain. In addition, we may be looking for specific signs when they are sending others. As a note, your boyfriend is also fully aware of what you have been experiencing since his passing. Our loved ones in spirit have unique insight into what happens here on earth and when you think of him and speak of him, he hears you. He does not want to make your grief worse. He knows you need time to heal. He will use many methods to get signs to you that he is around. I keep getting the impression, though, that he want to apologize for his past behavior. I would highly recommend sitting for a reading to receive the direct messages from him. If you are interested in doing so, please send me an email at SpiritMedium@comcast.net to set up an appointment.

      I am calling on Archangel Azrael to help you to cope with the loss of your boyfriend. You can call on Archangel Azrael any time you feel you need help managing your grief. I am also calling on Archangel Michael to lend you his strength and courage to help you through this trying time.

      Sending lots of love and peace to you.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  21. Hi my name is Carmen my husband passed in July 2017 without even saying buy to my kids and I. I always question myself if he misses us or if he knew that he was going to die. Is a everyday struggle of just knowing that he no longer here in earth with us and truly miss him. Life without him is not the same. I just want him to come in my dream to let me know that he is ok

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Carmen,

      I am sorry to hear of the sudden loss of your husband. He was not aware that he was going to pass the way he did. He is in Heaven and keeps watch over all of you. When you think of him and speak of him, he hears you. As for him showing up in your dreams, he may or may not do that right away. Our loved ones in spirit use many methods to get signs to us and dreams are only one of the ways. In my book, “How Have You Loved?,” I write about how they do this for us. If you are having trouble recognizing the signs or would like to receive more direct messages, i do provide private readings to people all over the world. If you are interested in booking an appointment, please email me at SpiritMedium@comcast.net.

      I am asking Archangel Azrael to help you and your children to cope with the loss of your husband, their father. Your husband will always be the guardian angel watching over you and the kids. I get the impression he is sorry he was not able to spend more time with all of you prior to his passing. He sends his love and wants you to know he is ok.

      Sending lots of love and peace to you and your children.

      With Light and Love,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  22. My Mom recently passed away and my Dad passed when I was 5. Are they together in Heaven? I miss her so much

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Melanie,

      I am sorry to hear of the loss of your parents. Yes, when we cross over into Heaven, we are reunited with loved ones who have crossed over before us. Your parents will continue to watch over you and your family. They are your guardian angels. There is a tremendous amount of love being sent to you from them. They are happy to be reunited. Your mom and dad miss being with you as well. Please know that when you think of them and when you speak of them, they hear you. You can send them love from your heart and receive it from them as well.

      Sending you love, peace, and blessings, Melanie. I am asking Archangel Azrael to help you to cope with the recent passing of your mother and Archangel Michael to lend you his strength and courage during this time of transition. You can call on them any time you feel you need peace, love, courage, or strength.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

      • Thank you for responding that gives me great peace to know they are together. Did my Mom know she was going to pass? And is she sending me signs? I miss her so much I’m hoping that while I’m grieving I’m not missing the signs.
        Melanie

        • healings-admin says:

          Hello Melanie – Give yourself time to grieve and for your heart to heal. Let go of any worries regarding signs. You will recognize them when they come your way. You may also want to learn more about how loved ones in spirit send signs to you. I have several articles on my website under the Spirit Medium Readings page and the Inspirational Blog page that may help you to understand how loved ones in spirit communicate, how they send signs, what happens when they cross over and more: http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

          As for any premonitions you mother might have had, as well as additional personal information, I highly recommend sitting for a reading. That way, you can have your questions answered and receive any personal messages your mother has for you. If you are interested in booking a reading, you can email me at SpiritMedium@comcast.net

          Sending lots of love and peace your way.

          With Love and Light,
          Karen T. Hluchan

          http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  23. Hi Karen, my father passed away on Jan 10, 2009 and had come and met me at my marital house on Jan 09, 2009 night when i shared the news of my pregnancy with him which i had just got. Could it be that he came back to me in his new life in my daughter as we were quite close.? After his going i saw him in one of my dreams that he touched my belly and did not speak anything.i felt miserable for his going. Still remember him each day.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Preeti,

      I apologize for the delay in my response. It has been a very busy holiday season. I am sorry to hear of the loss of your father. When you saw him in your dream, he was acknowledging your daughter. He was letting you know he would be watching over both you and her from Heaven. Your father has not reincarnated as your daughter. More often than not, we enjoy our time in Heaven and watch over our loved ones on Earth as we wait for them to join us at their natural time for crossing over into Heaven. After life on this Earth, we need time to heal, relax, and review our lives. Our reward for all of the trials and tribulations we experience here on Earth is a time of peace and love enjoyed in Heaven.

      Sending you love, blessings, and peace. Your father will always be your guardian angel, as well as your daughter’s.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan
      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  24. Hi my mother passed December 6 2017 When she was in the hospital i told her it was ok for her to go, I need to know if it was my fault she passed, I saw her in pain and all i wanted was to rest and not have pain no more. sometimes i feel that she’s around me like she did not cross over yet. how long does it take for them to cross over? My mom was not sick she had a stroke that killed her. my dad blames himself because he did not know she was sick he thought she was dreaming because she was talking non sense.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Elida,

      I apologize for the delay in my response. The holiday season has kept me very busy this year. I am sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. Neither you nor your father are responsible for your mother’s passing. It was her time to cross over into Heaven as decreed by her soul contract written and agreed to before she was born on this earth. She would not have recovered from the stroke she experienced. As for her crossing, in Earth time, our loved ones in spirit cross over right away. Because time in Heaven is not like it is on Earth, their crossing is a fascinating process which includes a montage of happy memories, as well as a welcoming home to Heaven. There is a wonderful reunion with loved ones who have already crossed over into Heaven. Once we have crossed over, we can visit our loved ones on Earth, which is why you feel her presence. You may also see, feel, hear, taste, and smell signs that remind you of her. It is her way of letting you know she is near and that she loves you. It is important for you and your father to know she hears you when you think of her and when you speak of her. When you send love from your heart to hers, she feels it and embraces you back with her love. You mother does not want you or your father to blame yourselves for her passing. She is at peace now and resides with the angels in Heaven. She will always watch over you and your family with great love.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  25. Debbie McNelly says:

    Hello Karen,
    I just lost my only daughter,Victoria,a month ago to cancer.We were so very close and I am grief stricken,yet I know she is sending me positive messages as I cry,but I’m not sure..I start hearing her singing me old songs we use to belt out together.Is there way I can be sure this is HER SPIRIT and not just wishful thinking on my part? On the day she was born,there was a mild earthquake in our little state of Delaware(very rare)..and the day she passed,I asked her for a sign that she made it to heaven ok…and there was ANOTHER very rare earthquake on that day as well!She knew I always said she came into the world with a BANG..and now she has gone out the same way!I wonder if you think this is as profound as I do…Thank you so much for your thoughts..

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Debbie,

      I am very sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter, Victoria. You are not imagining those signs from your daughter. She is sending them to you to bring you comfort and love, and to let you know she is doing well in Heaven. You would actually be amazed to know just how much our loved ones in spirit send us signs and help to orchestrate events on Earth to help us. I find it absolutely fascinating and amazing that there was a rare earthquake on the day she was born and on the day she passed. Profound is the word you used and it is perfect. What a beautifully powerful and undeniable sign from your daughter. Victoria is thanking you for being there for her every step of the way. You are a wonderful mother and she wants you to know just how loved you are by her and so many others in Heaven and on Earth. Keep an eye out for more signs which will come in many different ways from your daughter. You may smell scents, hear music, or see images that remind you of her. Also, whenever she appears in your dreams, it is really her.

      Sending you love, peace, and blessings, Debbie. You are an angel on earth.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  26. Whitney Earl says:

    Karen,

    My sister In law passed 12/21/2017. She was in the hospital to have her gallbladder out. 4 hours before the surgery, she was checked on by a nurse. The nurse came back to check on her 20 minutes later and Katye had coded. It took the staff 21 minutes to revive her. She was put on the ventilator for 3 days as we prayed for miracles. 4 days later it was told that she was Brain dead. WHAT HAPPENED TO HER? I’m devastated, as is my husband and his siblings. We all feel so guilty and so empty. Katye was a loner but loved her family. We are all so in shock. Is she in Heaven? Is she happy? i just lost my sister to Brain Cancer in 2016. I’m not over her passing and now this. I just want to know that Katye is ok and she is Happy. Please can you tell me this?

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Whitney,

      I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your sister-in-law and your sister. Kayte did not expect her physical body to expire when she went into the hospital. No one did. There is no need to feel guilty about an event you could not control. I get the impression of complications with sepsis, which can sometimes occur when the gallbladder ruptures or malfunctions. With her passing being so very recent and sudden, as well as the passing of your sister last year, it is understandable that your grief is deep. Both Katye and your sister are in Heaven, surrounded by loved ones in spirit and the angels. Katye is on the process of receiving healing and knowledge about her life and soul, including information about the soul contracts she agreed to prior to life on Earth. Heaven is providing Katye with healing, peace, and solace. There is no need to worry about Katye. She, too, needs to heal and come to an understanding about her transition from Earth to Heaven. The best actions you can take are to give yourself time to grieve and to know that Katye is doing well in Heaven. In time, she will send you signs to indicate she is around you.

      I am asking Archangel Azrael to help you to cope with the loss of your loved ones. In time, you may want to consider sitting for a reading to receive information and messages from your loved ones in spirit. You can contact me at SpiritMedium@comcast.net whenever you are ready.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  27. Lori Hadley says:

    Hello. My mom passed on christmas eve i still have not felt any signs from her. I live in the house she lived in i have pictures up i sit and cry because i worry she hasnt crossed over. When i lost my dad i felt him i knew he was around but ive felt no connection with my mom. Im desperate for answers and help. I worry she may be in distress she did not pass peacefully. I was not with her like i promised brcause i difnt know she was near the end. Any answers help advice would be appreciated it.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Lori,

      I am sorry about the passing of your mother. It is not usual when a loved one passes to not receive signs right away or to not recognize them. You mother has crossed over into Heaven. That is not the reason for the lack of signs. There are times when our loved ones know when we need space to grieve and heal, which is why they are sometimes quiet when it comes to sending signs. They know we want to hear from them, but they also know our hearts and spirits need time to heal. In addition, our grief can sometimes prevent us from recognizing the signs they send, and it could be that you are looking and asking for specific signs when she is sending others. Our loved ones in spirit will use a multitude of ways to send us signs. Here is a link to an article that I wrote that may help you to understand the various ways our loved ones in spirit send us signs that they are around. It is called “Why Recognizing Signs from Loved Ones in Spirit is Important to Your Life Path.”

      Again, even though your mother’s passing was not easy for her, this does not mean she is not in Heaven. She had loved ones who had already crossed over into Heaven with her at the time of her passing. They helped her to cross over to the Other Side. As for your not being there, you were not supposed to be a witness to her passing. God determines when we leave this Earth, and often there are many lessons tied into these experiences for us, including learning how to forgive ourselves for circumstances which are beyond our control.

      Your mother is at peace. If in the future, you would like to schedule a reading with me to communicate with your loved ones in spirit, feel free to contact me at SpiritMedium@comcast.net.

      Sending love, peace, and blessings your way. I am also asking Archangel Azrael to help you with your grief and coping with the loss of your mother.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  28. Stell aGattuso says:

    Hi Karen,

    My brother passed away on march 4 2017, he had lots of medical issues, me and my husband and me were living together , we shared an apartment , he had a lot of health issues but in 2016 he became someone who could walk to someone that lost the use of his limbs which he was bound to a wheelchair, because of a cervical stenosis he could not be operated on because of lungs and heart problems. Me and my sister took turns to help him , but I was also working and I was spending my nights awake to make sure he was ok and that he did not need anything. When he passed away I was so devastated but decided to return to work a week after his funeral but as thing progressed I was getting very anxious and could not sleep and even functioning with regular daily things was becoming harder and harder , in December of 2017 my doctor put me on sick leave because I was going to work and crying every day. I am on a deep depression and the image of my brother in his death bed comes in my head by surprise and I have this sense of guilt for not doing more for him concerning his medical issues that it is forbidding me to live a normal life at this moment , recently I dreamed of him but he is not talking to me and I am wondering if he forgives me for not being there when he passed , I blame myself for not being able to function on my daily life that even my relatives and husband are concern. I just need a sign that I will be able to get back on track and that he is around me to help me go through this.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Stella,

      I am sorry about the loss of your brother. You did everything in your power to help him. The sadness and grief you are experiencing may be masking your ability to recognize the signs from your brother. It is common for this to happen, especially when you are experiencing deep grief. As I mentioned to another person who commented on this article, our loved ones in spirit do not usually show up in our dreams until we are at peace with their passing.

      You stated that the guilt is “forbidding” you from living a normal life. It is not the guilt itself that is preventing you from living your life because guilt is an emotion that is experienced as a result of thoughts of regret for an action or actions. You cannot change the past, nor can you take away the illness your brother had or his passing. Your feelings of guilt, which you are in control of, are only hurting you and preventing you from healing. When I say you are in control of your feelings, I mean that you decide how you want to react to the events and circumstance in your life. You cannot control what happens to you or others, but you can control your actions and reactions. It is the only control you have. Trying to make yourself feel bad because your brother passed of an illness that you had no control over will not bring him back. Your brother has no need to forgive you. Again, you did everything in your power to help him. This situation was beyond your control. Forgiving yourself is the first, and most important, step to your healing process. The second step would be in accepting that your brother has crossed over into Heaven. It was him time to go. He is still in existence in spirit and has been reunited with loved ones who have crossed over before him. Your brother would not want you to torture yourself with self-deprecating thoughts of guilt over a situation in which you had no control. You did not give him the disease. It happened. It was a circumstance of his life. You did the best that you could and now he is no longer in pain. He is at rest.

      In order to help you to cope with the loss of your brother, I would recommend speaking with a therapist. Doing so may help you to work through the feelings of guilt and help you get to a place of acceptance and forgiveness.

      I am sending love, peace, and blessings your way, as well as assistance from the Archangels to help you to move past your feelings of guilt to a place of healing. Your brother is there with you in spirit and will help you; however, you need to help yourself through the realization that this situation was beyond your control and that you did everything you could to help him.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  29. Lisa Ramones says:

    A very close friend of minds had passed away due to a heroin drug overdose. Will he passover to Heaven?

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Lisa,

      Yes, your friend has crossed over into Heaven. All are welcomed into Heaven. Those who need help healing from circumstances of their life receive it in the spiritual hospital which is attended by the angels. Your friend had an illness here on Earth that he struggled to overcome. God welcomes him into Heaven with open arms to help him heal.

      Sending much love and peace to the heart of your spirit, Lisa.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan
      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

      • Lisa Ramones says:

        thank you it means alot to me that Matthew went to Heaven he suffered here on earth so many years since a little boy in many foster homes and addicted to pain pills for a disability than hooked on heroin he was homeless here in hawaii and i was just a friend helped with food for him at times I felt so sorry for him I was at his side in the hospital when he passed

        • healings-admin says:

          Lisa, you are an angel on Earth. You did all that you could and more. Matthew is at peace now and is surrounded by the angels. Thank you for being there for him while he was here. He is very grateful for your presence in his life and wishes he could have done things differently. Sending much love from Heaven to you from Matthew.

          With Love and Light,
          Karen T. Hluchan

          http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

          • Lisa Ramones says:

            is their a way I could get a sign to tell Matthew is in heaven

          • healings-admin says:

            Hi Lisa – I apologize for the delay in my response. You can ask Matthew to send you a sign that he in is Heaven. Many people do this and often receive prompt signs from their loved ones in spirit. Matthew hears you when you think of him and when you speak out loud to him. Ask him to send you a sign. I am sure he would be happy to oblige. 🙂

            With Love and Light,
            Karen T. Hluchan

            http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

          • Lisa Ramones says:

            ok I am in Hawaii but his ashes are now in Massachusettes not sure how to see signs

          • healings-admin says:

            Hello Lisa,

            It does not matter where you are or where his ashes are. Our loved ones in spirit can find us wherever we are in the world. On a side note, his ashes are only the remains of his physical body. They are not his spirit which is in Heaven. As for how to recognize signs, here is an article I wrote that may help you to recognize the many ways our loved ones in spirit and the angels send us signs: Why Recognizing Signs from Spirit Is Important to Your Life Path.

            With Love and Light,
            Karen T. Hluchan

            http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  30. Dear Karen,

    My husband passed away from complications after a heart attack. I am unable to forgive myself for not being here when it happened. I was able to be with him in the hospital and after he was discharged but he went into sudden cardiac death 10 days later. I failed him and can’t forgive myself. I feel he can’t forgive me either, but I just need to know that he is free from sorrow and is whole and well in heaven. Is he? I am so sad, I can’t bear to be in my own body I feel he couldn’t count on me when it mattered.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Nicole,

      I apologize for the delay in my response. I am sorry to hear of the loss of your husband. I am also sorry to hear you are being so hard on yourself for not being there for your husband when he went into sudden cardiac arrest. There is no way you could have known he was going to pass when he did. It is important for you to know that your husband is not angry or upset with you. When he crossed over into Heaven, he was given access to his soul’s plan and had the opportunity to review his life. He knows it was his time to pass, just as he knows it is your time to forgive yourself for a situation that you had no control over.

      There is no negativity in Heaven as there is on Earth. When we cross over we attain great knowledge and understanding about all of the events of our lives and the lessons we agreed to learn while we were here. Heaven is a place of peace. Your husband is at peace, and he wants you to forgive yourself. This situation was not something you could have predicted or controlled. You spent a lifetime helping him and he appreciates that and the time he had with you. The pain you feel in your heart will heal in time. You are meant to be here to finish the plans you created for your life on earth. Your husband will be watching over you from Heaven and sending you signs that he is around you and sending you his love. In time, he will also appear in your dreams to let you know he is okay.

      If you are having a difficult time with the grieving process, call on Archangel Azrael to help heal your heart and cope with the passing of your husband. Azrael is a benevolent angel who has been tasked with helping us with transitions, especially when our hearts need healing.

      Sending love and peace to the heart of your spirit, and asking the angels to help you through the grieving process.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  31. Daryl Rose Labrador says:

    Hi, my father passed away last February 4, 2018 because of his sickness. On february 8, during his wake something bizarre happened, between 1am-2am while I was looking at him in his coffin someone called my name behind my back. It was very soft and hardly noticeable but I did. The voice was familiar and comforting. It was my father’s. I talked to him right away. It really was him, is it? What does it mean when he called my name? when I heard it I feel like he’s comforting me. But are there any reasons why he would do that?

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Daryl,

      I am sorry to hear of the loss of your father. I love how your father called your name. He wanted to let you know he is still in existence and that he continues on in spirit beyond his life on Earth. He also wanted you to know he loves you and is there for you whenever you need him. Your father knows your heart and knows you would benefit from hearing from him. He did it because he loves you and he wanted to provide proof he continues to exist in spirit. He has crossed over into Heaven and will watch over you as a guardian angel, Daryl.

      Sending much love and peace to the heart of your spirit. I am so glad you had the wonderful experience of hearing your father call your name. He loves you and always will.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  32. Dear Karen:
    My husband died of cardiac arrest. I did CPR but it made no difference. I cannot forgive myself. I don’t want my negative emotions to affect my husband, but I can’t move past this. I wasn’t with him when he had his heart attack, and then 10 days later I couldn’t save him with CPR. I have failed him at both ends. Does he forgive me, and will he be with me until I meet him?
    I ask for his forgiveness every night and morning.

    I am having such a hard time.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Michele,

      I am sorry to hear about the loss of your husband and I am sorry to hear you are blaming yourself for his passing. There is no way you could have known he was going to have a heart attack. You were not meant to be there. With regard to providing him with CPR ten days later, you did the best that you could; however, no matter what actions you took, it was his time to cross over into Heaven. The decision was not his or yours, it was what was written in his life plan according to his soul contract written before he was born on Earth. There is no need to ask for his forgiveness as there is nothing to forgive. You did everything humanly possible to help him. You did not fail him in any way. This was a situation that was beyond your control. It is time to forgive yourself. This is what your husband wants you to do for yourself. You will meet with your husband in Heaven whenever it is your natural time to cross over into Heaven. You are meant to continue on here on Earth, loving who you are. It was not within your power to change the plans made for your husband before his birth.

      I recommend asking Archangel Azrael for help in healing your heart and to assist you through the grieving process. It is never easy to lose a loved one. Please know that your husband continues on in spirit and is at peace in Heaven. He will provide you with signs through music that will make you think of him, as well as through electronic devices (blinking the lights, altering the screen on your television, and more). Please know he hears you when you think of him and talk about him. He watches over you and your family and sends you his love.

      Sending love and peace to the heart of your spirit, Michele.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  33. Hey Karen,
    One of my close friends just passed away Feb 25 2018. We have an idea of what the cause was but I feel horrible cause there was signs to prevent it. I feel as though she’s still here but have yet to receive any signs. I cry cause I’m not sure she went peacefully. She was beautiful and the life of the room always smiling and joking and honestly just a beautiful soul in and out. And I just hope that she knows and sees how much she is missed and loved. I feel like I’m rambling but also feel like alot of people here including yourself understand my ramble.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Lillian,

      My deepest condolences to you regarding the passing of your close friend. As with other people on this thread, when you are experiencing deep grief it may be challenging for you to recognize signs from loved ones in spirit. Your friend is a beautiful soul, as are you. It is difficult to know everything that is going on with someone. They may present a happy demeanor on the outside, but inside may be a different story. While we do what we can to help people, ultimately, we cannot live the life of another or control his or her actions. Try not to be too hard on yourself. I am sure you did all that you could to help her when she was on Earth. Know your friend is in Heaven. When the time is right, she will send you a sign letting you know she is there. She knows you miss her and knows she is loved, not only by you, but also by many others – more than she realized while here. If possible, please let her friends and family know she is in Heaven surrounded by loved ones in spirit who crossed over before her.

      If you are interested in receiving more detailed information and messages from your friend, I recommend setting up a time for a Spirit Medium Reading. You can send me an email at SpiritMedium@comcast.net to set up an appointment.

      Sending much love and peace to the heart of your spirit, and asking the angels to help you cope with the loss of your friend.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

      P.S. I am assuming the date you provided for your friend’s passing was a typographical error, as it is a date that has not occurred yet.

  34. My dad died last year, and I miss him every day. I know he is with me, but I sometimes wonder are these signs from him or do I just miss him so much that I want there to be a sign? Today on the way out the door to church (my dad went every Sunday) my cell phone rang, it popped up with my dads old number, then about an hour or so later, as we were leaving it rang again with his number. I tried to answer but it just went away. Curious I decided to call it back wondering if someone had just gotten that number, but it is still just a number no longer in service.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Susan,

      My deepest condolences to you regarding the passing of your father. I apologize for the delay in my response. Loved ones in spirit and people on Earth keep me very busy.

      With regard to signs you are seeing, there are no coincidences. Your father is sending you signs. I love the phone call on your way to church! That is one way loved ones in spirit let you know they are around using the phone. Another is when 000-000-0000 comes up on the phone. Your father is certainly a clever man who is trying to let you know he loves you and is watching over you.

      Sending you lots of love and peace to the heart of your spirit, Susan!

      With Light and Love,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  35. Sherlanda B says:

    My mother passed away January 8, 2018 from three types of cancers. Prior to her passing, the doctor gave my mother six months to a year to live. Unfortunately, my mother passed away a month and half later. It broke my heart seeing my mother deteriated and suffered the way she did. I lost 30 lbs due to stress and worrying about my mother’s health. I felt so defeated and helpless because there was nothing I could do to help her. My mother was my best friend. We did everything together. I am having a hard time dealing with her death. I cry every day because I miss her and want her here with me. I’m afraid I might die from a broken heart.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Sherlanda,

      My deepest condolences to you regarding the passing of your mother. You did everything you could to help her. This situation was beyond your control. I am sure you mother appreciates everything you did to help her during her time of crisis. You are never truly separated from those you love. When you think of your mother and speak of your mother, she hears you. She is trying to send you signs she is around and is at peace in Heaven. Have you been seeing butterflies or images of them or cardinals? She sends you cheerful signs to reassure you she is doing well. Losing a loved one can be very challenging; however, knowing they continue on in Heaven and remain connected with us, can bring us peace. You will see her again someday, but now is not the time. You still have things you need to do here on Earth. Your mother will be lovingly supporting you from Heaven each day.

      When your despair is deep, call on Archangel Azrael to help bring healing to your heart. If possible, take a walk outside to enjoy nature or spend some quiet time participating in a hobby or task you enjoy. Peace will come in time to the heart of your spirit. It is your time to heal now with the help of your mother and the Angels.

      When you are ready, you can set up a time for a private reading with me to connect with you mother, as well as other loved ones in spirit, and receive their messages for you. To do so, email me at SpiritMedium@comcast.net. I provide readings for people all over the world. Those whom I have helped report feelings of relief, happiness, peace, and love. They are also much more aware of how their loved ones send them signs they are around.

      Sending much love and peace to the heart of your spirit, Sherlanda.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

      • Sherlanda B says:

        Hello Karen.
        I actually google cardinal birds because I had no clue what they look. I now can confirm that a cardinal had infact visit me in the last month. It landed on my tree in front of my window of my apartment complex several times. I remember looking at it and thinking how beautiful it was. Come to think of it, I’ve seen this bird alot over the course of the year. I believe that stemmed from my deceased father who past away three years ago. I’ve never knew that cardinals birds are associated with our deceased loved ones. Thank you for the information, Karen. 😊

        • healings-admin says:

          Hello Sherlanda,

          So happy to hear about your experiences with the cardinals! Our loved ones in spirit often use brightly colored birds to let us know they are around because they capture our attention and to remind us of the beauty of life on Earth. You are most welcome for the information!

          With Love and Light,
          Karen T. Hluchan

          http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  36. Paul Mitchell says:

    Hello Karen
    My soulmate love of my life that I fairly found after 52 years passed away on the 8th of March 2018 in the morning she had a massive heart attack she was only 39 years old I didn’t find out until the next day her mother called me. I feel so guilty I’ve never felt this way before in my life with anybody that I lost before including my father the bad thing is the last couple weeks of her life. We were fighting bad I did not see her for 3 days before she died because we when fighting. I love her so much. For the first time I I would be happy to die so I can be with her to go through the journey of passing from this life to the next but I have two children and I love them dearly. I’m just so lost. Life is not the same no more for me and I don’t think it ever will be she was a very special person and we both believes not long after we meet that we where soulmates why did I have to lose her so soon after I just met her I love her so much.And does she know how much i love her. Orietta the love of my life, why did this have to happen, im so numb , so lost , i dont know what to do, i cant function without you, i love you so much, miss you more than life it self. ,You are my life. Love you for eternity with all my heart I really do need to know that she knows how much I love her. A couple days after I found out she passed away a white dove flew in my backyard I walked up to and it flew a bit high about head.I put my hand up to it and it walked on my hand then I carried it towards my back door then it flew off back on the spa where it’s first landed. So I gave it a bit of bread and let it eat. I went back inside was this my beautiful girl giving me a sign and what didn’t it mean.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Paul,

      I am sorry to hear about the passing of your soulmate, Orietta. My deepest condolences to you. Your beloved knows you love her and she loves you, too. She sent you the dove to let you know that she is at peace and to try to bring peace to your heart, as well. She will always be a part of your heart. She hears you when you think of her and when you speak of her. She is with the angels and will watch over you from Heaven as your guardian angel. She loves music and will use it to send messages to you, as well as visual signs that remind you of her. I am asking Archangel Azrael to help you with your grief. You are not lost and you are not alone. Your beloved Orietta is with you in heart and in spirit. She will help you through this time.

      As for her leaving this life so early, we have soul contracts that are made prior to our birth on Earth. It was her time to leave, even though it doesn’t feel that way or make sense right now to you. She is a beautiful soul who was called back to Heaven as her time her on Earth had come to an end. She continues on in spirit and will do what she can to help you from Heaven.

      Allow yourself time to grieve her passing, but also remember the good times you had and the gift you were given through the love you shared, even if it was brief. There is much for here for you in life and you need to take care of you. Orietta would not want you to wither away, but to find reasons within yourself to thrive and live on in order to fulfill your life path here.

      Call on Archangel Michael whenever you feel you need strength and courage to continue on and call on Archangel Azrael to help you to cope with the loss of your soulmate. Remember, she is always with you in heart and spirit and will help your heart to heal.

      Sending much love and peace to the heart of your spirit, Paul.

  37. My mom passed away 3 weeks ago and i am utterly broken. I was her caregiver in her final weeks and i never wanted to see the signs instead i continuously fought with her to try get better ( fighting to get her to eat and do physio) when she was actually to ill … i need to know that she is ok and is in a happy place as she always said she would die without me. Is she ok and not alone and how does she feel about the way i treated her !!!!! Heartbroken daughter

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Colette,

      My deepest condolences to you regarding the passing of your mother. In our love for others and in our desire to keep them here on Earth, we can sometimes act in ways that we think is best at the time, but that may not be in the best interest of those we are caring for. You were doing all that you could to keep your mother here, which I refer to as life at all costs; however, it was her time to cross over into Heaven. She does not blame you for doing all you could to help her while she was here. She thanks you for all that you did and especially for the tremendous amount of love you displayed trying to take care of her. Your mother is at peace in Heaven and wants to bring peace and love to the heart of your spirit. It is time for you take care of yourself now, knowing she is in the hands of God and the Angels. She also wants you to forgive yourself for what you perceive to be a wrong committed against her. You were doing what you thought was right and in her best interest. You are a loving daughter who loves her mother, and you have a loving mother who loves you, too.

      I am asking the angels to help you to forgive yourself and to love who you are. Archangel Chamuel is the best Angel for this task. You can call on Archangel Chamuel to help you whenever you feel you need help.

      Sending much love and peace to the heart of your spirit, Colette. Remember, your mother is at peace and has been reunited with loved ones in Heaven who have crossed over before her. She wants you to forgive yourself and to take care of you now. She will always be a part of your heart and spirit.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

    • Sherlanda B says:

      Hello Colette.
      Everything you wrote about your mother was the exact carbon copy of what I went through with my mother. I too was my mother’s caregiver in her final weeks. There were many times I tried to offer my mother food, which she declined majority of the time. It was hard for me to accept my mother’s dying process because I believed she was going to be ok. When the doctors told me my mother was nearing death, I literally discrieted what was told to me, and believed differently. I was in total denial. When my mother passed, a large piece of my heart broke in the process. I too am a heartbroken daughter.

      • healings-admin says:

        Sending some extra love to you Sherlanda. I am sorry to hear you had an experience similar to Colette’s. I am glad both of you reached out through the article I wrote for many reasons, but also to see that there are others out there like you who have had these experiences. Much love and peace to both you, Sherlanda, and Colette. Your mother’s know your actions were done out of love. They love you and hope you can someday hold forgiveness in your hearts for yourselves.

        With Love and Light,
        Karen T. Hluchan

        http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

      • Hi Sherlanda

        Maybe email me and we can try comfort each other.
        My email is coletteleibov@yahoo.com

        Thank you Karen xxx

  38. Thank you so much and it’s funny you said
    she loves music and will send you messages through the music I’ve received 4 messages form her after I wrote to you. 3 on the way to
    her service. And one the next day on the way to her funeral. The first three messages on the way to her service was. The first song
    that come on. And mind you I was listening to
    iHeartRadio and i was on the Johnny Cash station that plays country and western and
    doesn’t play this type of music. IT was (knock knock knock on Heaven’s Door ) The next two songs where had very strong meaning message to me and do not belong to that radio station as well. You’ll never hear that sort of music on that station so that was very unusual as well. The next day I was on my way to her funeral and I said to my family listen to the radio I’ve gotta put the radio on to see if she was going to give me a another message the next thing I know the song (Heaven must be there ) come on and it finished just as I was arriving at the funeral. So tonight is the evening of the funeral I’ve received your message telling me she loves music and will send messages through music to me. ( AND YOU WERE RIGHT ) she did love music and she did send me messages through music. Thank you so much for the beautiful soul you must be to be able to pass these messages on people like myself that are grieving.

    Thanking you Paul Mitchell.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Paul,

      Thank you so much for your lovely words and feedback! I am so glad you recognized Orietta’s signs to you! She is a beautiful soul and will always be with you in heart and spirit. You are most welcome for the assistance. It warms my heart to know that I have helped you today.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  39. Thank you again for what you do…..
    Its been 5 weeks since my mom passed and the pain is indescribable. I have had loads of dreams and so called signs but i still don’t have any idea how my mom really is.
    How bizarre that she is no longer here and i still NEED to know she is ok. I guess what’s bugging me and i know its difficult to answer …. maybe u can shed some light….
    What do they do all day/ night.?
    Do they miss their loved ones here in earth? Are they happy and with loved ones there.
    The reason i ask this is the bond me and my mom had was indescribable and i just cant see her being happy without having me with her. Also i looked after her Alot and i need to know shes beinh looked after and if I WILL SEE HER AGAIN 💔💔💔💔

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Colette,

      Thank you for reaching out to me regarding your mother. The grieving process takes time and some days will be better than others. It is natural to want to know how your loved ones in spirit are doing. In my book, How Have You Loved?, I write about the multitude of activities our loved ones in spirit participate in, as well as what happens after they have crossed over into Heaven. They are reunited with loved ones who have already crossed over into Heaven. Any emotional and physical pain is healed. They participate in a review of their life and can enjoy Heaven or volunteer to be a guardian angel or partake in many other jobs. They also visit us here on Earth to help us with our lives. They do this because they love us and want to help in any way they can. Your mother is at peace and she sees much more of you now than she ever did in life (do not worry about ultra-private moments – they do give us our privacy when needed). She has access to every event that has occurred in the past, as well as what is happening right now in the present, and what is destined for the future for you. And, yes, you will see her again whenever it is your natural time for crossing over into Heaven. You will also see her in your dreams and she will send you signs when she is around. She hears you when you think of her and when you speak of her.

      If you are truly interested in knowing how your mother is doing in Heaven and what she has been up to, I highly recommend sitting for a reading in which you can receive direct communications from her, as well as other loved ones in spirit who have crossed over, including pets. I provide private readings in-person in Horsham, PA, or over the phone or video chat (Skype, FaceTime, or Facebook Messenger) to people all over the world. Feel free to email me at SpiritMedium@comcast.net if you would like to set up an appointment. Here is a link to my website to learn more about me and the services I provide: http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  40. Tara Reid says:

    Hello,

    My name is Tara. My husband took his own life in front of my eyes suddenly out of no where for unobvious reasons, on April 2 2018. We set an amazing example for everyone around us on how to Love and treat each other well for a fulfilling relationship. He was the most amazing, and I just can’t understand why this happened? I’m also so unsettled in my belief of where he is. I don’t feel him, he has sent one message I think. I moved away from organized religion years ago and I need his help understanding what I will believe in regards to what is after this life and it’s possible purpose. I will read your book but I’m hoping you may have some guidance specific to me. I know that I am overcome with grief and often fall into a very dark place but I am getting help along with our four children. It’s wrong that a love like ours was removed from this earth while far lesser loves remain. Thank you for any input you may have.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Tara,

      My deepest condolences to you regarding the loss of your husband. There is much more to this story than what appears to be on the surface for him. He has made it to Heaven and is receiving healing for the issues that caused him to take his own life, as well as the deep soul-level pain that comes from ending his life earlier than was intended for him.

      I am glad you read my book, as it should help you to understand what happens when we cross over into Heaven, and especially, what happens to those who take their own lives. When someone commits suicide, it is because of a very deep-seated despair that takes over the mind and convinces the person that circumstances will not improve, that they are not worthy to live, that there is nothing here on earth to live for, and much, much more. It is very difficult for people who suffer with great despair to climb out of the darkness. Many people do not even exhibit symptoms outwardly, which causes great confusion when the person takes their life. There are also cases of extreme stress that build up to such a point that the person takes drastic steps, including taking their own life. I can tell you this, every single person who has come through in spirit who has taken his or her life has expresses great regret for the actions they took. It is soul-wrenching when people end their lives early. They do receive help in Heaven; however, they will need to come back to earth in the future for another lifetime to redo and complete the lessons they didn’t finish.

      Your husband has been receiving healing, which is why you have not received many signs. His despair needs to be healed. His loved ones who have crossed over before him, as well as the angels, are helping him with his healing process. He loves all of you and is very sorry for what he has done. He knows how much it has affected everyone on earth.

      When you are ready, I recommend setting up a time for a private reading in order to connect with your husband and other loved ones in spirit to receive personal and direct messages from them. I am more than certain he has much to share with you regarding his actions and what he has been doing in since that time. He would like to bring healing to all of you. You can email me at SpiritMedium@comcast.net when you are ready to set up an appointment. I provide readings to people all over the world in person at my location in Horsham, PA, as well as over the phone and through video chat (Skype, FaceTime, Facebook Messenger).

      Sending lots of love, peace, and blessings to the heart of your spirit, as well as to the heart of your children’s spirits. they need a lot of love and understanding at this time to heal, as well. I am asking Archangel Azrael to help you, your children, and all of your husband’s family and friends with the grieving process and to bring healing to all of your hearts. Whenever any of you are having a difficult time, you can call on Archangel Azrael to help bring peace to the heart of your spirits.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  41. Hi my husband passed away Oct 23, 2016. Since he been gone me and our son would see white feathers here and there. Almost every week. And we even saw a red cardinal bird. My granny also passed away few years before he did. Not sure if the bird or the feathers are a sign or not. I would also have dreams of him. One of the dream he was very tall and completely dressed up all in white but he did not say anything.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Mary,

      Thank you for sharing your stories. My deepest condolences to you regarding the loss of your husband. I love the signs your husband is sending you and your son to let you know he is around and loves you. Feathers are often signs from the angels and our loved ones in spirit, as are cardinals. They choose the cardinal because they are brightly colored and cheerful. They are often a sign of something good coming your way. In the dream when you saw your husband dressed in white, I often see loved ones in spirit dressed in white for the celebratory reunion parties that take place after arriving in Heaven. All loved ones in spirit who knew the person who crossed over are there, including pets. When he appears in your dreams, that is really him. You can learn how to speak with him in your dreams. It is called lucid dreaming and I teach methods in my book, “How Have You Loved?

      You husband is delighted you are recognizing the signs he sends to you and your son. He hears you when you think of him and when you speak of him. He sends you his love and a beautiful red rose with velvet-textured petals. He will always be with you in your hearts.

      Sending much love, peace, and many blessings to you and your son, Mary!

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  42. Hi, my husband passed away on 15th March 2018 I love and miss him so much, I’ve cared for him for right throughout his illness since 2004 till the day he passed away in hospital. He had suffered from bowel cancer and oscoephagus cancer he did go into remission however oscoephagus cancer returned early this year, after his first bout of treatment we were waiting for the next course of treatment but my husband took ill with breathing difficulties and unfortunately other illness set in and he could no longer fight this and he lost his battle. I just want to know how he is I’ve not had any visits or any signs from him is it true spirits need time to settle in before they visit their loved ones?

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Sue,

      My deepest condolences to you regarding the loss of your husband. With regard to loved ones in spirit needing time to settle before visiting their loved ones in not necessarily the case, which is why I wrote the article. Loved ones can communicate right away, if not on their own, then with the help of another loved one in spirit or guide. The issue we often have here on earth is the grief which can block us from being open to recognizing the signs. Moreover, our loved ones in spirit like to give us time to heal. Learning about the various ways loved ones in spirit send signs is also important. You may be receiving signs but not recognizing them because you may be expecting them to come to you in a specific way. They will use visual signs (e.g.,images), auditory signs (e.g., music), sensory signs (e.g., feeling they are around), olfactory signs (e.g., scents in the air), and much more to let you know they are around. They are quite creative and amazing. In my book, How Have You Loved? and in my many inspirational blog articles, I write about this to help provide understanding and knowledge. Once you understand how they communicate with you, your world will truly be transformed, as they send signs quite often to give us love and support.

      Your husband is doing well in Heaven and is enjoying his pain-free existence. If you are interested in booking a private reading to receive direct communications from him, please contact me at SpiritMedium@comast.net to set up an appointment.

      Sending lots of love, peace, and blessings your way, Sue, and asking the angels to help heal your heart.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  43. I recently lost my mum suddenly. I hadn’t seen her in 2 years only because of distance. I miss her so much and I have tried to contact her. I think she was trying to contact me but it wasn’t very strong. I want to know if she has found my dad.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Karen,

      My deepest condolences to you regarding the sudden loss of your mother. She is aware of your love for her and is doing her best to send you signs. They may be coming in ways you would not think of since our loved ones in spirit use all of our senses to communicate. They also use a variety of signs to let us know they are around. As for your mother and father being together in Heaven, yes, we are reunited with loved ones who have crossed over before us. We often have a delegation of loved ones in spirit who help us cross over, and then once we arrive, there is a party thrown in our honor in which all of the loved who crossed over before us are in attendance. In my book, How Have You Loved?, I write about what happens in Heaven, as well as the many ways our loved ones in spirit communicate with us. In my Inspirational Blogs on my website, I have many articles that may help you better understand life on earth, events in Heaven, and much more.

      Sending a lot of love and peace to the heart of your spirit, Karen. Your mother is safe in Heaven and is surrounded by her loved ones who have crossed over before her.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  44. Viktoria S says:

    Hello There,

    My Dear friend, Torry passed away a month ago. He was murdered bright Monday morning, the day after mothers day this year. We had a relationship prior to my marriage but we have remained friends from a distance. He would call to check up on me and my family and I would check up on him. I never thought that he would pass so suddenly and I never expected to feel the loss I feel and the sadness that’s taken over my body. I can barely function at home because he is on my mind 20 hours if not more. I cry randomly. I just cant fathom the thought that he will never call to check up on me and that I couldn’t of saved him somehow. All i think about is him. I hear voices in my head and I dont know if they are my thoughts anymore. I just keep hearing myself say I miss him and his presence and I wish that he was alive and well. He has kids and mommy sisters and brothers and everyone who miss him so very much…. Please help, how do I feel peace again. I really miss him sooooo very much!!!

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Viktoria,

      My deepest condolences to you regarding the tragic loss of your dear friend, Torry. Loved one this way can be very challenging as the circumstances are very shocking, painful, and sad. It is nice that the two of you kept in touch with one another over the years. Feelings of grief are natural as we miss the physical presence of those we love on earth. You may also be experiencing strong feelings of guilt over the manner of his, even though there was nothing you could do to prevent it. Have you considered talking to a grief counselor? Speaking with one may help you work through the feelings of grief you are experiencing and give you an opportunity to talk about your feelings.

      Your friend, Torry, would not want you to stop living your life. Doing so will not bring him back, nor will it change the circumstances of his passing. He is in Heaven and has received healing for the sudden loss of his life. He is surrounded by loved ones in spirit who have crossed over before him. When the time is right, he will send you signs he is around, letting you know he is ok and that he sends his love.

      Your beautiful family needs you. It is important to focus on one day at a time right now and do your best not to get lost in the grief. You had a wonderful friendship with Torry that continues on in the heart of your spirit. He hears you when you think of him and when you speak of him. He hopes someday you can laugh and enjoy your life again as he enjoys Heaven and all it has to offer.

      Sending much love and peace your way, Viktoria.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  45. Kristin says:

    Hi Karen,

    My husband passed away very suddenly on March 4th 2018. We are 36 years old and have been married for 15 years. I have been so lost without him, although my grief has gotten better I still cry every day and miss him every day. We have a 13 year old son and a one year old son. I thought I was seeing signs, but then it seems over the last two weeks they’ve kind of disappeared. I had a dream 2 months after he passed, it was a visitation dream. He told me to get happy, and that’s all he said. His mother said she heard him tell her he loves her. They did not have a very close relationship. For some reason I cannot get over this as to why he would tell her he loves her but not me. I was the one who was by his side through everything. I was always the one there for him when nobody else was. Everyday I talk to him, and ask him to show me signs and to please visit me and tell me he loves me. I feel as if he could come and tell me this I could start moving on a little easier. I do believe he’s in heaven and I do believe I’ll see him again one day. There is still question about how he died, nobody really knows the truth. Thank you for listening.

    Kristin

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Kristin,

      My deepest condolences to you regarding the loss of your husband. I am sorry to hear about the struggles you are experiencing as a result of his passing. I am glad, though, that you have been recognizing his signs and that he appear in your dreams. As for why he would tell his mother in a dream that he loved her, that could be because they did not get along in life and she did not realize that he did love her. You know he loves you. You have known that every day you were together. The love you share did not end. It continues on through the hearts of your spirits. Listen to your heart and know the love you share is there.

      As for not really seeing signs in the past two weeks, there could be several reasons for that. When a loved one passes, they may Step back a bit because we need time and space for our hearts to heal. If you felt your husband’s presence all of the time, there is the possibility that you would not move forward with your life, but stay stuck in the past. Even though you may not have received a recent sign from him, he is still there. Your husband loves you very much and always will. The signs from him will return and they will vary. It will not be the same sign all of the time. Be kind to yourself during this time as well, because sometimes in our grief, we may not see or experience the signs they are sending. It is because grief pulls our attention inward and takes up much of the space in our consciousness.

      As for the mysteries surrounding his passing, we could set up a time for a reading to delve into this for you. You can contact me via email at SpiritMedium@comcast.net if you would like to set up an appointment. I help people all over the world to connect with their loved ones in spirit and bring through their messages, as well as help to receive answers from your loved ones in spirit regarding their passing.

      Sending love, peace, and blessings your way, Kristin.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  46. Karen,
    I lost my boyfriend last year to a tragic accident. I notice synchronicities a lot since he died and lights flashing and things, and I do believe it’s him, but I sometimes wish he would offer something that is more specific, like a medium to connect with his name or manner of death or something that is undeniable. Am I asking too much? I desperately want to see him in a dream or for something more specific to happen. I’m just heartbroken. I keep wanting him to talk to me. To send me a specific message. I miss him so much.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Kris,

      My deepest condolences to you regarding the loss of your boyfriend. Your boyfriend is sending you signs that he is around. There are many ways in which they do this and the manner in which they do it differs greatly from the way we communicate as human beings on earth. Because loved ones in spirit are communicating across dimensions, the methods they use employ all of our senses earthly senses and extrasensory senses. As a trained Spirit Medium, I can more readily recognize and decipher the messages which often come through using symbolic representations of the communications beings in spirit would like to share. It is possible for your boyfriend to communicate specific information; however, it may take a Spirit Medium to help you decipher it.

      In some ways, you may be expecting your boyfriend to materialize in the form of his spirit and sit down on your bed for a long chat to tell you everything you want to know. They can materialize; however, it takes a significant amount of energy to do so and they do not often do it because it can make people very uncomfortable to see them in energy form. Moreover, when they are communicating, it is not a straight-forward process. It is much like an abstract puzzle which needs to be pieced together. For example, I was driving down the road after leaving a company who was going to professionally scan and print my artwork, when I saw an image of my dad in my mind’s eye. He kept showing me himself so I asked him through my thoughts what he would like to share with me. It was then that I noticed the license plate in front of me with the image of a tigress and her cub sponsored by the Philadelphia Zoo. The words “Save Wildlife,” which are above the image, magnified in my vision. I knew immediately what my dad was trying to tell me. He wanted to me donate a portion of my Spirit Animal artwork prints to help save the wildlife on this planet. What makes this more interesting is when I woke up fully to my gifts of mediumship, one of the messages I received was that I was supposed to help save the people, the animals, and the environment. It was a pretty tall order and, at the time, I did not understand it. My dad was giving me another piece of the puzzle.

      As you can see, this was not a clearly defined spoken communication. They are able to do that from time to time; however, it is often combined with imagery, feelings, and much more. You can learn how to communicate with your loved ones in spirit. Everyone has this gift to some degree and you can learn in order to better communicate with your loved ones in spirit, as well as other people’s loved ones in spirit. In the example I provided, my dad was also helping me to navigate my life. Once you learn how to communicate via your spirit to those in spirit, you can also become more aware of how your loved ones in spirit and the angels provide you with navigation on a daily basis. They will not give you all of the answers, but they will help direct you on the right path when they are able to do so.

      If you are interested in learning how to communicate via your spirit, I do teach workshops from the beginner level to the advanced level. At this time, the workshops are conducted in person in Horsham, PA; however, I am working on online workshop for those who are not able to be here in person. Here is a link in case you are interested: https://www.healingspiritwithlove.com/communicate-with-spirit/

      One of the best ways to receive a specific message is through a Spirit Medium who is trained to decipher the information and messages that come through across dimensions from your loved ones in spirit and the angels. If you are interested in booking a reading, feel free to email me at SpiritMedium@comcast.net.

      As a note, I have several articles on my website under the Inspirational Blog page which discuss a plethora of topics, including how your loved ones in spirit communicate with you and how they help you on a daily basis, as well as much, much more. Here is the link to my Inspirational Blog page in case you are interested in learning more: https://www.healingspiritwithlove.com/inspirational-blog/

      Sending much love, peace, and blessings your way.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  47. Amanda Kinder-Stout says:

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    Hello, My name is Amanda, I actually came across this page literally by accident however I have a strong feeling it “wasn’t accidental” I was actually looking for information about “signs” from loved ones because every time I am outside a dragonfly appears and just hovers around until I go back inside, at first I didn’t think much of it but here recently I began really noticing the pattern and it’s honestly every time I am outside at my home (many times throughout the day) so I decided to Google any information about this or if it has happened to others, maybe not a dragonfly but something similar and this site popped up. So I want to share some of the “Blessings” as I call them with you all, I want to apologize in advance for such a long post but there’s so much I want to share and I’ve learned that it is very helpful for me to talk about my dad and share things with others even people I don’t know. It was April 19, 2005 I was 25 when I lost my Daddy, he was 59, my dad was diagnosed with Type 2 Diabetes when I was 5 he was 39, the ER doctors couldn’t understand how/why my mom was able to walk my dad into the emergency room, his blood sugar was 900 and all the doctors and nurses said he should’ve been in a coma with that high of blood sugar, dad spent 2 weeks in the hospital. It was a 20 year battle with this disease, like a rollercoaster there were so many ups and downs it was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to sit and watch as literally attacked every single part of his body, from his kidneys, eyes, bones and limbs. In my eyes my dad was the strongest man I knew and to this day still is, many of you can probably tell by now I was a Daddy’s Girl, he was my world and if you asked anyone I was his. It was April 18, 2005 my dad was still in ICU at the hospital (so some of you know the visiting hours are a lot different) I spent every visitation with my dad that was scheduled for an hour, so on the 18th it was the last visitation for the evening, he was sitting up sideways in his bed, I told him he looked and must have felt great that evening, he looked at me and his words have stuck in my head still to this day he said “Baby girl, your daddy is going home” my reply was one he probably heard a few times during over the 20 years, I told him when the doctor tell us you can. At 3:30am (7 hours after seeing him and his words to me) April 19, 2005 the hospital called and said I needed to get there that he was unresponsive. I sit right beside him holding his hand from the moment I got there, it was my mom who looked at me and said “he is fighting for you, you need to tell him it’s okay” I can promise you those 2 words were the hardest 2 words I’ve ever said, it was that very moment he squeezed my hand and opened his big blue eyes as a tear rolled across the bridge of his nose 15 hours after the hospital called I watched as he took his final breath. Many months went by after his passing until one night I had a dream that was so real it had my shaking, I called my mom and began telling her, she quickly said I’m on my way, I need to talk to you, so she gets there and we talk. My parents had separated when I was 20, probably 2 years before my dad passed my mom had gotten pregnant and my dad took it extremely hard when he found out, he was angry with me (because I was happy, I always wanted a sibling, I was their only child, my dad had 4 others from a previous marriage but they were a lot older than me) and he said some hurtful things to my mom, sadly my mom miscarried but unknowingly to me until that moment she came to talk my mom told me everything, my dad had told her after her miscarriage that she would have the son they always wanted but he would be gone. It was exactly 2 months after my dad passed my mom found out she was pregnant, soon later she found out it was a boy and a few months later my brother Elijah, was born, (we are 27 years apart and just a little insight my parents were 17 years apart) in my dream it was me and my mom and she told me I needed to tell my dad we were leaving but I couldn’t find him, then he was there and he said to me “Elijah is here because of me and one day Baby Girl you’ll be a mommy too”. I think my mom was just as shaken up as I was when I had first called her to tell her about my dream. When Elijah was 2 he was playing and asked me if I knew his friend “Donnie” I thought to myself “Oh Lord, he has imaginary friends” probably 2 weeks later me and my mom were sitting at my house (of course this big sister had him spoiled, he had his own room and toy room at my house) and Elijah comes running out of his toy room and asked if I knew “Goat” I said yes bub I know what goats are and he said “NO, My Friend Goat, he comes to see me and plays with me, he told me he really loves you and misses you” my heart sank and I busted into tears, so did my mom, you see my dads name was Donald and his nickname was “Goat”, my brother never meet him, dad passed in ’05 and Elijah was born in ’06. In 2013 I reconnected with my old boyfriend whom I dated when I was 19, we’ve been married for almost 4 years now. My husband to this very day still talks about the time we went to my parents for dinner and my dad told him to have a seat, they needed to talk and dad told me to go help my mom in the kitchen that this was a talk between a father and his daughters boyfriend, my husband will say he was scared to death and he will never forget “that talk”. Now I tell you that this was the very FIRST and LAST time my dad ever sat down a boyfriend and had “that talk” sometimes I wonder if daddy knew something John and I didn’t know many years ago. There’s been many things and different signs in these 13 years since dad has passed that’s happened, I have learned not to blame others for things missing, I use to blame my poor little brother but I’ve realized over the years it wasn’t him or others, my dad was a huge practical joker. My husband and I recently moved back home to West Virginia from Louisiana, we both were born and raised here (WV) we now live in the same town I was raised. About a month and a half ago I was sitting up stretched out on my couch playing a game on my tablet and my husband was in another room doing who knows what (typical man thing) when something caught my eye, I looked up and standing in the dining room stood my dad, I even shook my head as if my eyes were playing tricks on me only to still see him standing there, nothing was said but a feeling came over me, it was as if my dad was saying it’s okay, I’m okay and still here with you, that’s the easiest way I can explain it. So that brings me back to what I was first saying about coming across this site, since moving back each time I’m outside there is 1 dragonfly that shows up out of nowhere hovering around me. A little bit ago I told my husband about it, like I said just recently did I start noticing the pattern of this occurrence with the dragonfly. My husband was outside for about 20mins before I went outside, seconds after I was out there like the snap of your fingers the dragonfly appeared, my husband looks at me and said “what the” I’ve been out here this whole time and never once seen a dragonfly. My husband doesn’t believe in things like this well I can’t say it is that he don’t believe I just think he doesn’t want to, out of fear as for myself, I smile and say “Hi Daddy, I Know You’re Here and I Love You Too”.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Amanda,

      My deepest condolences to you regarding the passing of your father. Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful story about your experiences with your father since he has passed. He loves it when you recognize his signs for you.

      Sending much love and peace to the heart of your spirit.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  48. Hi i have just lost my partner of 5 years suddenly of a brain hemerage on the 10th of aug 2018. It is so hard to deal with but I want to ask that the day after he passed I woke up from a dream and I’m not one to remember my dreams ever but this felt so real..he looked younger sounder great he told me he woke up and came to see me he told me he didon’t have much time so we walked about the area we alwats were and went into pubs we went to there was people around but it was as IF it was just us..he started to look tired I held his face and asked him if he knew he was really unwell he said yes that’s why I have to go soon then we kissed and held hands then I woke up..the next morning I was struggling to get up and do anything i did say his name while crying telling him I was struggling today and that I missed him ect I went to iron my clothes I was wearing this day and was crying while trying to iron and I felt as if he bloow in my right ear I did touch my ear and ask if it was him..iv not had anymore dreams or anything physical since was this just my gref. Thank you

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Teresa,

      My deepest condolences to you regarding the loss of your partner. Thank you for sharing your beautiful story about your dream experience with him. That was your partner truly with you in your dream. He will always be a part of your heart. All you need to do is think of him and he will be there for you, whether you are aware of his presence or not. When grief becomes overwhelming, call on Archangel Azrael to help you to cope. You can speak to Archangel Azrael as a friend, as indeed, this Archangel is our friend and benevolent helper.

      Sending love and peace to the heart of your spirit.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  49. Carolyn wilmore says:

    Hi my name is Carolyn I lost my husband Alvin this year April 22, 2018. We’ve been married for 32 years and I miss him so much he wasn’t sick or anything he just passed away all of a sudden and I’m just still in shock. Sometime I feel his spirit at night I was sleep
    In my bed and it felt like someone was in the bed holding me tight it felt so warm and good just like the way he would always hold me when I turned over no one was there I woke up the next morning smiling, because I know that he came to visit me to see that I was alright and to let me know that he’s also alright on the other side. I know that he watches myself and our children at all times we all all blessed to have had such a great loving person in our lives he will never be forgotten and will always live in our hearts.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Carolyn,

      My deepest condolences to you regarding the loss of your husband, Alvin. Thank you so much for sharing your experiences with your husband visiting you in spirit. During a recent gallery reading I was presenting, I was just talking about this very type of experience which is often reported by people who have had a spouse pass away. I think it is an amazingly beautiful experience to be able to feel your spouse lay down next to you in spirit.

      Your husband, Alvin, will certainly continue to watch over you and your children as a loving guardian angel to all of you. He knows your heart and feels your love, Carolyn. He shares his love with you and the children always.

      Sending much love, peace, and blessings your way.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  50. paige rudzinski says:

    Hello Karen,
    My name is Paige. I’m 25 years old my father passed suddenly on 9/18/18, he was 53 years old. I’m very distraught and the pain is agonizing right now. I need some peace of mind that he is indeed okay and not mad at me. Our relationship was rocky the past couple years due to his life choices, but before that he was my number 1. I have so many voicemails on my phone of him begging me to answer and i never did.. I have so much regret. I just want to know those things i mentioned above but afraid its too soon to connect and schedule a session. Please guide me on what to do, i feel hopeless.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Paige,

      My deepest condolences to you regarding the loss of your father. I can relate to the pain of losing your father at such a young age and in a sudden way. My own father left this earth when he was 52. My heart goes out to you as you grapple with the pain of your loss, as well as feelings of regret about rocky relationship the two of you shared.

      Your father is in the process of gaining a greater understanding about why circumstances were they way they were in life, as well as why the two of you had a contentious relationship. The understanding and knowledge he is gaining comes from the objective review of his life in which he learns about the soul contracts he made for this lifetime, including the ones the two of you made together to learn lessons in this lifetime. Part of those lessons are occurring now, as you review all that has passed between you and, hopefully, learn how to forgive yourself and your dad for the troubling relationship you shared. Forgiveness is not condoning, it is releasing hold situations have on you.

      To help ease your pain, it is important to know that your dad does not hold any grudges against you for not talking to him. As a I mentioned about the review of his life, he has a higher understanding now about his life and the effect he had on others. He is working on those aspects of himself that need improvement and will gladly come forward to communicate with you whenever you are ready to sit for a reading.

      Your dad loves you. You are his daughter, Paige. Be at peace tonight in your heart, knowing a healing is taking place not only for your father, but also for you.

      Sending love and peace to the heart of your spirit, and asking Archangel Arzrael to help you through the processing of your grief over the sudden passing of your father.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  51. Hi,
    If a family member is in the hospital and is very ill. Is it possible to dream about giving them a hug, saying i love you and miss you and then they disappear in the dream. Is this even a thing if they haven’t passed yet? Is this a sign for something you think? i don’t understand why something like this would happen if they haven’t passed yet? Also how long after a passing is the spirit ready to do a reading?
    thank you

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Samantha,

      Thank you for your inquiry. Yes, you can certainly dream of loved ones who are alive. Dreams are our subconscious acting out issues from the day in symbolic form. It is one of the ways our mind and soul process the many events in our lives, including the one you described. I will add, though, that if someone is in a coma or comatose, they can appear in our dreams in spirit. It is because they are in Heaven’s Waiting Room, which is like Heaven, but not quite Heaven. It is very surreal and dream-like world in which loved ones who have already crossed over can visit and happy memories are re-lived. If the person you are inquiring about is in a coma or is comatose, they can visit you in your dreams from Heaven’s Waiting Room with the help of a special guide.

      After someone crosses over into Heaven, you can book a reading whenever you feel you are ready; however, if you are in deep grief, I recommend waiting at least a month or two to help give you time to begin adjusting to the major changes to your life.

      Sending love and blessings your way, Samantha, and sending prayers for you and your family.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  52. Hi Karen,
    I am uncertain what I would like to hear you say…anything, just even a word, personal about my mother would be a great blessing…her name is Gina and she passed away on September 24, 2018. I cannot seem to be settled about her. I am searching for something and I am beginning here. Thank you. -Niki

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Niki,

      My deepest condolences to you regarding the loss of your mother. It is difficult when we lose a parent. My heart goes out to you. In order to receive private information about your mother, I recommend booking a private reading. Because this is a very public forum for general comments and questions about the Other Side, a private reading is more appropriate for the sharing of messages between you and your mother. If you are interested in booking a reading, email me at SpiritMedium@comcast.net. It would be an honor to help you connect with your mother in Heaven.

      Sending love, peace, and prayers your way.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  53. Hi Karen

    Hope life is treating you incredibly well 🙂

    This morning (3-Nov-18) at 9:50am we lost power in the house for only 30 seconds. It was enough for me to pay attention as my mother-in-law was on her death bed (she had under a week to live). I rang my husband immediately (he was out working) and told him I think she had passed. 6 minutes later he received a call from the Nursing Home saying she had passed.

    Is this pure co-incidence or was it her saying farewell?

    Thanks for your time

    Kind regards
    Sharon

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Sharon,

      Thank you for your well wishes. My heartfelt condolences to you regarding the passing of your mother-in-law. There are no coincidences. The power outage was certainly a sign from the Other Side that she had passed. Frequently, people experience unusual circumstances around the time of a loved one’s passing. Your experience was definitely a sign from her that she had passed. I keep getting the message one of the members of her delegation (the loved ones in spirit who help us cross over to the Other Side), helped her to create this phenomena for you. It is a beautiful gift from her to you and your family to let you know she transitioned to Heaven.

      Sending love, peace, and prayers to you and your family.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  54. Hi Karen
    My beautiful nanny (grandmother) passed away several weeks ago. Naturally the next day my grief was so raw and painful I couldn’t stop crying. That night I was in my bedroom and I decided to film the room to see if I could pick up any signs of her. I tried a few videos and it wasn’t till the last one when I was about to give up something happened that made me so overjoyed. I watched the last video back not thinking much of it and right at the end of the video I see an orb fly towards me/my phone with a sort of ‘swooshing’ sound then as clear as day someone whispered my name ‘Emma’ I didn’t hear it at the time but listening back to it it was so obvious – I asked my partner to listen to make sure I wasn’t going mad and he was totally spooked! I really hope this was my nanny trying to comfort me but a lot of mediums and psychics say this would be too soon? I just wanted to get your thoughts on it. Thank you so much 🙂 Emma

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Emma,

      Thank you for sharing your story. My deepest condolences to you regarding the loss of your grandmother. As I mentioned in my article, some our loved ones in spirit are capable of communicating and sending signs immediately after transitioning to Heaven. Others need to learn and may receive help from a guide to share signs and communications. Your grandmother was absolutely capable of sending the communication you received. There is no limit to what they can do other than following the edicts laid out in our soul contracts made prior to birth. I love that she sent this to you when you needed it most. Keep an eye out for more signs, as she will certainly make her presence known to you. She has volunteered to be your guardian angel. 🙂

      Sending much love and many blessings your way!

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  55. My mother passed away a few weeks ago after a long battle with Parkinson’s. The night she passed I couldn’t be with her. I was sleeping alone and was woken up to something touching my head and face. It was the strangest sensation that had me reach up to swat it away. It was like waves of energy, not a hard touch. I believe it was my mother. She loved me deeply and we always had a strong connection. Have you heard of this experience before?
    I have had nothing happen since. I never opened my eyes and wish I could have responded to her in some way. I hope she visits me again!

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Suzy,

      My deepest condolences to you regarding the loss of your mother. She is at peace in Heaven. As for the experience you are describing, yes, I am very familiar with it because I experience it from my own loved ones in spirit, as well as from other people’s loved ones in spirit when I am providing a Spirit Medium Reading. It is a gentle tingling sensation, rather than the feeling of a physical touch. That is because they are using energy to transmit the sensation.

      During a reading, a loved one in spirit will touch my face along my left cheek to signal to me that they were affectionate in life. They do this to provide identifying information about themselves for the recipient of the reading. When my own loved ones in spirit do this to me, they are not only letting me know they are around, but also sharing their love with me and bringing me comfort with their presence.

      I am glad you had this experience with your mother. It was her way of sending you love and comfort after she crossed over into Heaven. As a note, your loved ones in spirit will send you signs and messages using all of your senses. Your mother will send you signs she is around. Please know that they will be varied, such as a scent in the air that reminds you of her, or a song played on the radio that makes you think of her. I keep seeing cardinals as I write this. When you see a cardinal, whether it is the actual bird or an image of it, please know your mother is around and sending her love.

      Sending much love, light, and peace to you.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

      • Wow Karen! I just had a chance to read your response! You’re not going to believe this (or maybe you will) but my mother needlepointed a cardinal bird picture. She had it hanging in the nursing home and now I have it near my bed. I look at it often and think of her!
        Suzy

        • healings-admin says:

          Hello Suzy,

          Thank you for sharing your feedback with me. That is so awesome! She will be sending them to you in many forms. She loves the brightness of the cardinals. They brought her much happiness in life, which is why she chose them as one of her signs for you. Sending you much love and many blessings!

          With Love and Light,
          Karen T. Hluchan

          http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  56. My father passed away recently, just last Sunday. He had been sick for a little over a year. I’m just wondering when I will see a sign from him, to be sure he is ok on the other side? I miss him terribly and while we knew this was coming (he was on hospice), you never are truly ready for it. Any insight you can provide would be greatly appreciated.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Trish,

      Thank you for your inquiry. My deepest condolences to you regarding the loss of your father. Your father has the ability to send signs to you any time after crossing over into Heaven. The signs are sent in ways which use all of your senses. Meaning you may see visual images that remind you of your father, you may hear songs, smell a scent that reminds you of him, receive a craving for his favorite foods, or feel when he is around. If he needs help sending signs, there are guides who can help him. I have many articles on my website regarding the many ways our loved ones in spirit send signs to us: https://www.healingspiritwithlove.com/inspirational-blog/
      You father is in Heaven. No need to be worried about him. It is those on earth who are in need of healing as our loved ones in spirit are with the angels and are reunited with loved ones who have crossed before them. Often, when a loved one is ill on earth, much of our grieving happens prior to their passing. Once they have passed, we still mourn the loss of our loved ones who have crossed over in Heaven.

      Your dad will send you signs. Have patience with yourself and remember, there are no coincidences. Our loved ones in spirit work hard to put signs in front of us to let us know they are still in existence in spirit and to share their love with you.

      Sending much love and peace to the heart of your spirit.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  57. Alexandria says:

    hello, I’ve been recently thinking about talking with a spirit medium or medium, whichever one because I wish to speck to my boyfriend who has passed away 9 months ago. We have a son together who just turned 1 in February. I see cardinals every so often in our backyard, pennies laying around, a song he use to sing to me comes on every so often at work. One day I walked into the bathroom at work and was having an off day and I asked him to help me feel better and about 5 minutes later it came on and I smiled. I miss him desperately because he was also my best friend. I’m thinking about buying your book and I have others to help me “understand” or find “comfort” during these times. I wish to really talk to him. I know someone told me that he can still hear me and I understand with all the signs, I’ve even taken a few photos of our sons first and have this crazy light or light energy near us. I would like to believe that is him. I also wanted to know if you do readings? Thank you for responding back when you do and I have read most of the other posts and I feel I can relate as well to what they have shared.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Alexandria,

      My heartfelt condolences to you regarding the loss of your boyfriend. He will always be the guardian angel for you and your son. I love that you are recognizing the signs he is sending you. He will continue to do so in many creative ways. He does hear your thoughts when you think of him and he watches over you and your son.

      I do provide readings for people all over the world. To book an appointment, you can email me at SpiritMedium@comcast.net. As a note, I book readings Wednesdays through Saturdays, both days and evenings. I would be honored to help you connect with your loved ones in spirit.

      Looking forward to hearing from you! Sending much love and many prayers for you and your son.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  58. Justin Cooper says:

    My grandmother passed away on Friday from cancer. I was very close to her growing up but as adult life took over I saw less of her. I think she did come to visit on the morning after she died as a balloon hanging in the corner of my room floated over and was suspended above my head.

    I am frustrated she hasn’t visited me in my dreams. I would very much like to communicate with her.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Justin,

      My deepest condolences to you regarding the loss of your grandmother. I am sorry to hear you are frustrated about her lack of visitation in your dreams. She has only recently transitioned to Heaven. Both you and she need some time to adjust to the major transitions, and it is important to know that loved ones in spirit send us signs and messages while we are awake. Not everyone receives dream visitations, especially when someone has recently crossed. Have patience and know your grandmother is watching over you. She will send you signs letting you know she is around and sending you her love.

      In the meantime, if you are interested in receiving direct communications from your loved ones in spirit, you can always book a reading. To do so, email me at SpiritMedium@comcast.net.

      Sending much love, peace, and blessings to you, Justin.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  59. My Dad Passed away on 28th March 2019 at 10.25am due to Heart attack. his date of birth is 15th may.1956. I loved him very much. I am unable to digest that he was no more. I want to talk with him. Does he now in the heaven like an angel. Why this is happened to him. I missed him a lot. I want to know reason of leaving us.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Jercy,

      My deepest condolences to you regarding the loss of your father. Your father has crossed over into Heaven. He knows you love him. I understand how a sudden loss can leave you with many questions. I lost my own father more than fifteen years ago to a sudden heart attack. When someone passes, it is their time to return to Heaven. Once there, they often volunteer to be our guardian angels to watch over us from the Other Side. Our time ends on earth when we have completed all of the lessons we were to learn in this lifetime. Those lessons are part of our soul contracts which are created before we are born. Because our existence continues beyond life on earth, we can continue to remain in contact with our loved ones on earth and help them in ways we could not do while here. In your search for answers from your father, it may be best to set up a time for an appointment for a reading to receive direct communications from your loved ones in spirit. To do so, send me an email at SpiritMedium@comcast.net. I provide readings to people all over the world to help them connect with their loved ones in spirit, as well as for guidance from the Archangels.

      Sending you much love and peace to the heart of your spirit. I look forward to hearing from you and providing you with the opportunity to receive answers to your questions regarding your father’s passing.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  60. Hello my mother just passed away on April 3rd 2019 from a heart condition that none of her doctors found before to be able to help her. My siblings and I have been through such a traumatic experience we all watched our mother pass away. My question is my mom wanted to tell us something before she died she tried so hard to talk and she couldn’t because of the life support ventilation in her mouth. I could see in my mom’s eyes how scared she was as she was passing away I just want her to let me know she’s ok and what is it she wanted to tell us???

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Irene,

      My deepest condolences to you and your siblings regarding the loss of your mother. It is difficult to lose a loved one so suddenly and under the conditions you described. Please know that your mother is at peace now in Heaven. She had loved ones in spirit with her to help her with her crossing. Many people have a fear of the unknown when it comes to crossing over because they do not know what to expect. She is in good hands now and now understands that her fears were unfounded.

      As a note, I do not provide direct readings on this public platform. Loved ones in ones in spirit bring through private information in their communications which is meant only for you and your loved ones. For that reason, I recommend sitting for a private reading. This can be done in person at my location in Horsham, PA, or over the phone, or using video chat services, such as Skype. Loved ones in spirit communicate with me in the same way across dimensions whether you are in my physical presence or not. By sitting for a reading, you will be able to receive more of her story and to hear about what she is doing in Heaven and who she is with, as well as her direct messages for you and your family. There may also be other loved ones in spirit who would like to communicate with you and your siblings. To book a reading, send me an email at SpiritMedium@comcast.net. I would be honored to assist you with communications from Heaven.

      Sending much love and peace to you and your siblings.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  61. Magdulen Holley says:

    I lost the one true love of my life on April 16, 2019, which was the day after his birthday his name is Jeffrey and we were together over 8 years.Your information has provided me with more knowledge. It has also gave me some comfort although I have regrets. I am constantly saying if I had done this, or what if I said that. I feel responsible because it seems as if when we we separated after my dad’s recent death this past October30, he started drinking more . We still communicated somewhat, moreover he was really hurt when he found out I was seeing someone else. I know him going to the afterlife is not my doing or my fault but feel responsible somehow. I had signs and know he has his angel wings but my heart is still so very, very heart broken.

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Magdulen,

      My deepest condolences to you regarding the loss of your ex-boyfriend, Jeffrey. I am glad to hear you have been receiving signs from him. He is letting you know he is ok in Heaven. As for your breakup and the actions he took following it, it was his decision to behave in the way he did. You had no control over his behavior at any time. Unfortunately, instead of examining what he could have done better and moving forward with the lessons he learned, he chose to turn to drinking. That was his choice. You had no control over that.

      Many times when a loved one passes, people question in retrospect whether they could have done more to save their loved one from their fate. When my best friend, Michele took her own life when we were 17, I struggled mightily about whether there was more I could have done. It was my mother who said to me that I had done all I could do and that she was most likely on this earth longer than she would have been had I not been her friend. She reminded me that it was Michele’s choice to take the actions she did. It took me years to finally see what my mother meant and to agree with her. I had given Michele nothing but love in her lifetime; however, the pain and mental anguish she experienced about other parts of her life caused her to take the actions she did. You also did what you could to help Jeffrey. You gave him love and shared your life with him. When it was time for you to move on, you did. Whatever actions he took, they are his own responsibility.

      I hope that you can come to a place in your heart in which you recognize all you had done for Jeffrey, and recognize that only he was responsible for his actions while on this earth.

      Sending you much peace and love to the heart of your spirit.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  62. Jennifer Sanders says:

    On January 9th, I was talking with a cousin of mine about doing Ancestry. I thought of a cousin on the other side of the family and messaged her about it. Her picture was still on my phone when I received a phone call that she just committed suicide. I had not talked to her in months. I reached out to her the month before because I saw a post and it looked like she was not doing well. She never answered me. She and I were very close growing up all through high school and beyond. I feel like I let her down..I should have pursued it when she didn’t respond to my text the month before. I found out later that she died 45 minutes before I sent the text to her on 1/9. Was that her communicating with me? I also dreamt about her the night she died and asked her why she did it. She told me “I had to.” Was this just because she was on my mind?

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Jennifer,

      I am sorry to hear about your cousin. My deepest condolences to you and your family. You did not let your cousin down, nor was it your fault your cousin took her own life. As hard as it is to hear, the choice was hers and hers alone. You could not have anticipated her actions. As for your dream and her answer, I am sure she felt that this was the answer to her problems leading up to her actions; however, it was not the best solution. Every single person who has come through in spirit who has taken their own life has expressed deep regret for their actions. It is very wrenching for the soul to realize they have ended the plans that we meant to be for this life. They do receive healing in heaven for all that caused them to take their life, as well as for the actions they took. At the spiritual hospital, they are attended by the angels to help them heal. This has been shown to me by not only my own loved ones who have passed in this manner, but also from others who have come through in a reading. Her healing can take anywhere from two weeks to six months earth time. Loved ones who have already crossed over into heaven can visit and help with her care. At some point, she will need to return for another lifetime to complete the lessons she did not finish. This is not something that happens right away, as we usually wait for our loved ones to reunite with us in heaven before we come down again for another lifetime. Your cousin is receiving excellent care and love in heaven. In time, you will receive signs from her letting you know how she is doing and that she loves you.

      Sending my love and prayers to you and your family, Jennifer.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  63. My boyfriend passed away 3 days ago it’s been really hard because we had gotten mad 2 days before his death. It appears it was an overdose my uncle found him dead in his apartment. I feel so guilty, I feel like it was my fault and I could of stopped it. That night I saw little white ashes flying on top of me and I thought l was going crazy but then the ashes turned into clear bubbles and I saw his arm and he was wearing a watch. Then I knew it was him and I told him how much I loved him and to forgive me if it was my fault and that I wanted him to leave with god and Rest In Peace then the bubbles turned into smoke and it went flying away and he left. What do you think that meant? Is he ok?

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Daisy,

      My deepest condolences to you regarding the loss of your boyfriend. You are not to blame for passing of your boyfriend. He was struggling with addiction. This was a situation beyond your control. The fight you had did not lead him to take drugs, he was already doing that on his own. It is greatly unfortunate he passed the way he did. Again, this was not your fault.

      The visitation you describe is very interesting. It is my belief he was trying to let you know he was saying good bye because it was time for him to cross over into Heaven. He is receiving healing in Heaven for the issues which caused him to become addicted, as well as for the way he passed. His loved ones in spirit and the angels will help him with his healing process.

      It is time for you to begin your own healing process here on Earth. He wouldn’t want you to blame yourself for his passing as he knows he is responsible for his own actions. Be kind to yourself as you grieve for your loss and know that he hears your thoughts and feels your love. He will send you signs letting you know he is around and at peace. Pay attention to the music and the feathers you find, as they are signs from your boyfriend and the angels around him.

      Sending you much love and peace to the heart of your spirit, Daisy. I am sorry for your loss and pray for the healing of your heart and the hearts of all those who knew him.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

  64. Hi Karen,
    My boyfriend of 2yrs passed away unexpectedly of a massive heart attack on July 2017. I’ve been completely heartbroken, confused, hurt and empty since then. I didn’t even get a chance to say goodbye. Did he love me? Does he know that I found out he had passed by a coworker? and that I looked for him? Why doesn’t he communicated with me?
    Please help me understand so I may have some type of closure. Thank you in advance!!

    • healings-admin says:

      Hello Lorie,

      My deepest condolences to you regarding the loss of your boyfriend. I am sorry to hear your heart is still hurting from your loss and that you continue to grieve deeply for him. Your boyfriend is fully aware of all that has transpired since his passing. He knows how much you love and miss him. He does send signs; however, you may not be recognizing them. Loved ones in spirit will send signs using all of your senses, such as images, songs or scents in the air which remind you of them. There are no coincidences. I have several articles on my website which may help you to better understand how your loved ones in spirit will send signs and communications to you. Here is one that may help: Why Recognizing Signs from Loved Ones in Spirit is Important to Your Life Path. I also have articles about what happens when we cross over into Heaven and much more.

      For in-depth communications from your loved ones in spirit, including your boyfriend, I recommend sitting for a Spirit Medium Reading. This way, you can receive detailed communications from your loved ones and help bring healing to your heart and spirit. If you are interested in sitting for a reading, you can contact me at SpiritMedium@comcast.net to set up an appointment.

      Sending much love, peace, and blessings to you and to all who knew your boyfriend.

      With Love and Light,
      Karen T. Hluchan

      http://www.HealingSpiritWithLove.com

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